Deck the Halls Until They are Slick with Blood....From the TShirtHell.com X-mas Jingle Bell Thingy
Mood:  cheeky
Now Playing: Insane Clown Posse
Once again, I have to say how fricking much I enjoy the offerings (burnt and otherwise) from TShirtHell.com!

The t-shirts and other assorted goodies are fuck all funny. Beyond un-PC....in a very good way. If you are easily offended, don't bother going to their site to check it out. Then again, if you are easily offended, you shouldn't be reading my blog either as much like In Living Color--nothing's sacred!

Sometimes their monthly news letter is just that and other times it is screamingly hilarious. This month is pretty hilarious (at least to me) and so I am posting it for your happy daily consumption of un-PC fodder.

Now, go check out the site at:
www.TShirtHell.com and keep the dream of pissing off everyone alive by buying two....or ten shirts. I especially enjoy the Beyond Hell section of the site....but then again, I would!

Deck the Halls Until They are Slick with Blood
By Aaron Landau Schwarz, owner of TShirtHell

I saw on TV last night some good news for a change: America is winning, "The War on Christmas". I, for one, am glad to hear it because frankly I feel we needed the victory. The War on Drugs was a bust (no pun intended), and the War on Terror is still too close to call. But I think the War on Christmas is really a slam dunk.

Why a War on Christmas? Well, there have been uncorroborated reports of sleigh bells ringing, and possible evidence of reindeer droppings (some say pigeon) at the World Trade Center right before the first plane hit. So, for me, that's plenty of proof to tie Santa Claus to September 11th.

Not to mention the coded messages sent out to Santa's operatives around the world in songs like, "White Christmas". Long thought to be just a harmless call for ethnic cleansing, the real significance lies is in the verse, "May your days be merry and bright". This is Santa's plan for world domination. His call for a World both Merry and Bright, (or WMB as he likes to call it) makes the idea of Global Communism about as threatening as a pillow fight in a nursing home. Santa's already created one at his workshop at the North Pole, as well as at his Elf Training Camp. We must go there and find, and destroy these WMBs.

I think sending our special forces down to the North Pole will be a really nice break from Afghanistan. After a day of torturing... whoops, I mean talking to elves; our troops can enjoy a nice cup of hot cocoa. And there's no whore, like an elfin whore. Even the ones that are pushing 245 still look 197: and if you slick their hair back, 96. Santa's not hiding in a cave. He's in a well marked building. The place has a sign made out of gumdrops on a thirty foot candy cane. It will not be hard to find.

I figure we'll have this war won by February and those little elves will be holding free elections by March. Our troops will be home by April. Just in time to start The War on Easter. So lay those chocolate eggs while you still can Easter Bunny.

You're next.

All I Want for Christmas....
Mood:  silly
Now Playing: Best of Johnny Cash
I have tried really hard this year to be nice and not naughty. These efforts have failed rather miserably as I am naughty by nature (and why did that have to be a rap band with street cred’s name and therefore ruin my line? Hey! ho! Down with the O.P.P….)

The good news is that I am naughty in a fun/enjoyable bratty kind of way not a seriously wicked or evil way. To be quite honest, I just don’t have enough short term memory left after college to handle the machinations of true evil. WAY too much stuff to try to remember and I still can’t figure out where I hid some of the Christmas presents I bought earlier this year. You would think that would be hard to do in a 1600 sq. ft. house….but I digress.

So all that being said, I think I deserve some special goodies from Santa Babe this year. Here’s my short list of random wants as I really can’t concentrate any more to try to compile something longer.

What I want for Christmas this year

• Super powers
• Black American Express card (if you have to ask, never mind)
• An evening without dog farts
• 60 inch flat screen tv….in every room of the house including the bathrooms and my walk in closet
• My two front teeth—no really, I’ve knocked them out twice and the bonding is coming off
• A bouncing, hydraulic, ‘vato’ gangster car complete with a chain steering wheel (the better to get my handcuffs around), a switchblade gear shift and a super cool flame paint job (I would look soooooooo cool as gangsta’ Meg!)
• Stretch Armstrong and a scalpel (I told you I was naughty)
• Life size Easter Island Tiki God thing or two (more impressive that way I think)
• Medium-size catapult with a supply of things to fling—preferably melons and gourds
• Suit of chain mail
• WD-40 (for the chain mail of course—DUH!)
• The Clapper (You know-clap on! Clap off! The clapper! NOT the other kind)
• A cabana boy complete with optional knee pads
• Trampoline shoes (seriously)
• Life sized robot (Danger Meg Robinson—return to the ship!)
• Hot pink footie jammies (the zip up one piece ones)
• An empty can with a string attached to it that I can carry around and pretend is my cell phone
• Tequila bandito bandolier (the shot glass shoulder holder thingy (technical term) that shot broads wear in bars)
• Vegas show girl headdress to wear to the grocery store-must be ginormous and horribly garish (are there any that aren’t?)
• Monica Lewinsky bobble head doll (isn’t that an oxymoron?)
• Potato gun (AKA spud mother)
• Finger puppets (an assortment of characters is fine)
• Leather Twister game mat (none of your beeswax!)
• A Peacock

Whew! I think that about covers it. Any combination of the above would make for a super cool Meg-O-Rama Christmas! Certain combinations could make for a unbelievably fricking stellar Meg-O-Rama Christmas!

Here’s wishing you and yours a Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Blissful Kwanzaa, Exultant Solstice, Joyous Yule, etc. If I overlooked your religious beliefs, or the lack thereof, I apologize. Yeah, not really. I am beyond sick of all of this PC shit with holidays.

If you run into me on the street, I will wish you a Merry Christmas, against your will if necessary, because I’m Methodist and that’s what we do….

Just add liquor.....
Mood:  party time!
Now Playing: New Order
So Friday night I was in DC Ranch (AKA BFE) for an evening out with a dear friend from college who I adore, Inga. Now, Inga is a darling Scandanavian gal who doesn’t get out all that much as she is married and is a stay at home mom with 3 kids: a 3 year old and one year old twins. Yeah—she’s a pretty busy broad on a daily basis to say the least. So it’s a rather big treat for Inga to get out of the house for a girl’s evening out.

When we met up at the bar we were ‘starting’ at, she was all shades of excited as she could actually stay out until 11pm! “Can you believe it?!” she squealed in happiness, “11pm!” I’m psyched as we will have a longer evening to hang out and gab.

So we plopped ourselves down, chattering incessantly the whole time. Our waitress came up and informed us that their monster Kettle One martinis (yum!) are half price for the next hour so we decided to order martinis. We ended up with appletinis…and I know better! You NEVER drink a smooth, quality liquor like Kettle One with fruity and sweet stuff added. It becomes a ‘stealth drink’ as the fruity covers the almost non-existent taste of the premium liquor and the sugar enhances the effect. Bad, bad combination.

I am yakking, telling her a story when she interrupts me to tell me I need to “hurry up” and she wants to order two more. What? I haven’t been flapping my lips that long have I? Quelle horror! I surreptitiously check my watch, only to find it’s been about 5 minutes. EEEK!!!! So she orders another one and continues to steadily drink. After about our 3rd martini, in less than an hour mind you, I tell her that we need to slow down. Just because the drinks are half off, doesn’t mean we need to schlog through them at a rate similar to a frat boy on nickel beer night. We also need to order some food to try to gum down the booze’s effect. An order of asiago dip and two more martinis later, sweet Inga is talking about ordering a 5th one! OMG! Now, I drink on a semi regular basis (one would have to with my job) and I have even been known to quaff back a stellar amount at times on par with a redneck spending the day tubing down the Salt River. The difference between me and the tiny blond Inga? I can hold my liquor—I’ve had shloads more practice in the recent past you see.

Pretty soon, Inga has decided that I need to hook up so she can live vicariously through me. Oh boy…

I come back from the bathroom. As I walk back to the table, I notice Inga has developed ‘glassy eyes’. Oy! Never a good sign. As I sit down, she says, “Hey, that guy’s pretty cute.” I’m like “What cute guy? I don’t see one.” She says “The one up at the bar eating the salad.” I replied “You mean the one that looks like Frank Sinatra?” And she says “Yeah”. To which I responded “Too bad he looks like Frank Sinatra….at 60! EWWWWW!” To be totally fair, I have to say though, the place had serious mood lighting. I kept grabbing the candle off our table and holding under my chin and saying “I am so scared!” in my best Blair Witch impression.

So then she’s all “Hey that guy’s cute. You should go for it.” I looked up and was all oh no! I like shaved heads, but that was about all this dude had going on for him even in the darkest of mood lighting! I look up to see this narfy looking guy ensconced in a pair of way too tight Wranglers (think male camel toe), a cotton Fair Island sweater and a pair of black, hi-top Reeboks tennis shoes. UGH! Can you say late/early for days?! This guy was stuck in a truly hideous 80’s fashion time warp!

Unfortunately, there’s no stopping Inga and she says “Sit down! Join us!” Ok, anyone can tell she is slam-dammered if not totally slam dunked as she has just asked him to basically sit down on our purses which is basically what I said to him with a smile. This guy acts like a total ass and is like “Yeah, I’m not sitting with you.” WHAT? What kind of asshole a) doesn’t want to sit with 2 cute girls and b) responds like a total dillhole to a clearly intoxicated and polite little blond? LOSER!

Soon, we find out the reason why he was such a total cheese ass. Captain fashion disaster is meeting a horsey looking farm broad. More power to him. More his style than us anyway. They decide to sit down behind us. Directly behind us. After they sit he starts telling her some wildly ‘enhanced’ version of what happened. How we were "totally hitting on him" and "that girl grabbed my ass" (As if! Besides, wouldn't I have gotten his narfy camel toe instead if I tried that?) I start chuckling and shaking my head in amusement whereas Inga starts getting indignant. I tell her to look at his shoes—PUHLEEZE! 'Nuff said! So she, very obviously in her stellar liquor haze, flips around to look at his shoes and lets loose with peals of laughter. FD gets all shades of pissy and says “Is there a problem? I saw you looking at my shoes.” Before I can censor myself, I snap back “Yeah, they’re lame just like you.” EEEEK! I can’t believe I just did that! I am usually beyond non-confrontational unless physically accosted, but I was seriously irritated that he would be that much of a shitbag to Inga and then lie about it to his hag chick. Apparently, my staring him down with major stink eye did the trick as FD sputtered for a minute and then left us the Hell alone.

Inga then spots a hotty blond and his entourage/posse enter. “Oh, he’s hot! You should definitely go for him!” To which I again started laughing and say “Yeah that would be Scotty McAlister, the Channel 24 weather guy. (NOTE: The broadcaster's name, appearance, job title, channel, etc. have all been changed to protect the innocent or the not so innocent....in this case, me.)He’s VERY married and has several darling kids that he dotes on.” As in beyond off limits in my book and with good reason.

She goes to order another ‘martooni’ and I frantically motion to our waitress with a slashing “cut off’ motion which sweet Inga notices. I managed to turn it into a casual hair flip. She’s tanked and having a blast. I do not want to rain on that parade, but I also know when to it’s a good idea to open an umbrella prior to a serious soaking.

The scarier part? It’s only 6:30pm. So much for that highly anticipated 11pm curfew. There is no way the tiny cuteness is going to make it that long. Her bright and hotly burning night out star has crashed and burned to earth like a fabulous, yet short lived, meteor.

I encourage her to head home. She didn’t want me to drive her, follow her or call her a cab. I was worried, but she assured me she was ok for the 10 minute toodle home and sometimes you can only push it so much. So after many hugs and a virtual “you’re the best!” love fest in the parking lot, we part ways. Inga to head home and me to head off for a ‘pick up’ date who I had contacted when I realized the evening was going to be rather short lived.

I’m proud of Inga for her all out, no prisoners willingness to tie one on….and hard. Willingness is half the battle or so says G.I. Joe. Next time, I just think she needs to treat it like a training for a marathon. Start small at first and work yourself up to the entire demanding distance. It’s all about endurance babe!

Hopefully, in two weeks when we go out again, we’ll start slowly and pace ourselves…I am SO looking forward to our next attempt!

No More Walt.....
Mood:  mischievious
Now Playing: Squeeze
So it is with great sadness in my heart that I have to inform you that I will no longer be sharing updates on the ‘Walt’ situation with you.

One of my rules is that the blog is not for consumption by those I might be or already am romantically/sexually/passionately/adoringly/mashingly (or a variation of none, one or several of these) involved with. While the things I talk about are nothing I wouldn’t tell them to their faces, it’s just not cool to do so on the Internet if they know about the blog and read it. And you know they don’t call me cool chick for nothing as I am all about being cool.....

See, ‘Walt’ knows about the blog. That usually wouldn’t happen as I never tell guys I go out with about it, but I met ‘Walt’ through unusual channels, so to speak, and he has read it.

In fact, only four of my exes know about the blog and have the address—three of these are from college and I remain good friends with them so I really don’t care that they read it as there’s nothing that would shock them anyway. At the most, they might just shake their heads and think “Oh, Meg!” The fourth is Matty and, if he still reads this, I can pretty much guarantee you that he doesn’t give a rat’s ass about anything I have to say about him. I don’t think there is anything I could dish out that he couldn’t handle.

At one point after we broke up the first time, he started dating a rather well-endowed (store bought) chick. He called up one night rather upset, and understandably so, as he had just found out that this broad, ‘Almond’ had been convicted of writing bad checks. Something he had been blissfully unaware of previously. Oops!

After he told me, I couldn’t help myself. I start giggling uncontrollably as that cheesy 70’s song “When You’re in Love with a Beautiful Woman” came to mind…but with vastly different words of course. So I started singing to him “When you’re in love with a big breasted felon, it hurts…” Yeah. So you see, nothing I could possibly say at this point could compare to that.

So anywho, I’ll have to take a pass on the hilarious ‘Walt’ update…use your imagination. It probably won’t be as good as the real story of torrid text messaging and utterly inane behavior but we’ll never know now will we?

Besides, in the dating game of Texas Hold'em, it's kind of stupid to show your hand on the Internet....

Speaking of Freakshow....
Mood:  cheeky
Now Playing: Sigue Sigue Sputnik
My neighbors are total freaks and it’s my own damn fault!

When I filed for divorce, I moved out to the first available place I could find which was barely habitable but they really could have cared less that I had three dogs…and three cats…and five ginormous goldfish that masquerade as low rent Koi…and a horse. At that time, I boarded Big so he wasn’t an issue, but still.

Needless to say, I have moved 4 times in 3 years. Yes, I am a masochist. I left the hovel and moved into a super nice brand spanking new house. Unfortunately, that house was in an HOA and between the curb Nazis and the fact that neighbors in 5 houses could hear my phone conversations whenever I sat in the backyard, the big ass walk in closets and the gas fireplace just couldn’t make it tolerable enough. I then moved a block down the street (please note, whoever said short moves are easier LIED!) to a super cool pad with 2 acres where I could have Big on site and a totally bitching upstairs patio with amazing city views that saw a lot of activity…of all kinds. As you know, it’s not a party until folks are urinating off the roof…

That would have worked except the owners, who had moved to San Diego and said they weren’t coming back for 2 years, decided they hated living in San Diego (go figure) and moved back after a year. So I had 3 weeks to find a new pad for me and all the furries including a horse. The pad I ended up moving to just happened to be a few blocks away. Again, another hateful short move but I digress.

So I am now surrounded by weird folks who rent. My own fault, I know, but a situation that I plan on rectifying in the spring. In the meantime, I just have to deal with it and all of the freakshow activity involved.

Unfortunately, this situation just got weirder as the owners sold the property to a new guy who plans on using it as an investment. He plans on taking a 1-acre horse property in the middle of a residential neighborhood and building multi-unit condos. Joy! Not!

The new owner came over the other night to introduce himself—Rick something or other foreign that I can’t remember now to add to this entry. He seemed like an okay guy—small, shaved head and foreign. I wasn’t sure if he was Russian or Israeli or something in between and to be honest, I really don’t care as long as it doesn’t interrupt my existence. Pretty much how I deal about most things…

Now, I am probably the most paranoid person I know. This comes, in part, from living in L.A. for 4 years and, in part, from having to get restraining orders against various stalkers over the years (yeah, I wasn’t kidding about that). If I think a car has been behind me for too long and I think the driver’s following me, I’ll take evasive maneuvers. Assinine? Possibly, maybe even probably, but I am a firm believer in better safety than sorry and so far, fingers and toes and assorted other appendages crossed, that adage hasn’t steered me wrong by more than a mile or so…

This being said, my neighbor, Zeta, has always struck me as being more than a little odd. Saying that Zeta is kind of paranoid is akin to saying that Hitler was kind of racist. She is totally nucking futs!

Yesterday morning, she shows up on my front porch freaking out about the new owner. Once again my ‘come tell me your freaky shit’ stamp must have been abundantly clear on my forehead. She starts off by saying that he introduced himself as ‘Rick’, “but that’s not his real name!” The name on the business card he gave her is apparently “Rezid”. HELLO! Gee, what a shocker! I looked at her in the way you do a drunken homeless person breakdancing naked with a bath towel on the side of the freeway—a combination of sympathy and irritation because it figures I don't have my fucking camera with me! I responded “Uh, Zeta, it’s not uncommon for foreigners to anglicize their given name after moving to America.” AKA DUH!!! Rick/Rezid—a major stretch I know, but go figure!

She then starts ranting on and on about how she is “suddenly” getting mail for him at her address. “I think he’s trying to force me out! Why else would I be getting mail for him?!” So I ask her “Is it personal mail—like his cell bill or something?” She responds “No, it’s junk mail.” Again DUH! He just bought a property and now he’s getting junk mail addressed to him at the address of the property—Oh! Spooky! So I tell her that this is pretty commonplace and she just doesn’t want to hear it. She is certain that it is a conspiracy and tells me so. HELLO! Do you know what a whack job you sound like?! Oy!

I tried my best to reassure her, but it was all wasted breath. You can’t convince a crazy broad that her reality isn’t real and sometimes, you’re just better off not trying.

She then proceeds to tell me that her “toilet hasn’t been working in a week” and that Rick/Rezid “won’t fix it” so she’s going to “contact the county assessor.” Uh, why? Are you looking for the purchase price of the property? I try to explain to her that the county assessor has nothing to do with landlord/tenant complaints and to tell her who she actually does need to contact when she basically cut me off at my perky tits without so much as a whatfor and tells me that she “is well aware of who to complain to.” Uh, okay then. Have at! Go for it you fricking nutjob!

She then told me that she is now considering moving “North” to live with a friend so that Rick/Rezid “can’t force her out.” I agreed with her that this is probably her best option “given the situation”.

I know. I know. Not nice, but what was I to do? Continue to ‘argue’ with her when she is so obviously smarter (I mean she did spot the conspiracy and all) and so much better informed than I am? I may be moving in the spring but really who am I to disagree with her? I sure as Hell could use a few months of sanity and peace in the meantime!

Besides, my only other viable option at that point was to start screaming "Run away! Run away!"

Waking Up in a Land of Hurt
Mood:  party time!
Now Playing: Pink
In my drinking ‘career’, I have found that there is only one guaranteed way to avoid a hangover AKA the land of hurt. Don't drink. Ever. And while you'll be certain to avoid hangovers, you can also assume that you won’t be having shitloads of fun either.

I have to figure that the majority of folks who are concerned with avoiding hangovers in the first place, are probably not going to follow the not ever drinking ‘method’. I know I don't.

So here’s your next best choice: never drink enough to get totally drunk. Stop when you hit mildly abbreviated. That way, hangovers will be rare, if not nonexistent, and at least you are still socially activated.

But since almost everyone who has ever had a hangover won’t comply with not ever drinking or not drinking enough to get totally drunk, then here is what I have found to be the best preventive measure to avoid waking up dazed and confused in a land of hurt.

When your drunken ass rolls home (hopefully taken there by a designated driver), always force yourself to take 3 ibuprofen and one or two glasses of water before you allow your body to succumb to unconsciousness and drunken dreamland.

Yeah, I know, you're full of beer/super dirty martinis/Jack & Coke/Chardonney, etc. (or at least I am) and the last thing you want to do is chug down a lot of water on top of an already overfull stomach of booze. It spells frequent urination sessions for the remainder of your morning but it WILL pay off in the long run.

I’m telling you a few ibuprofen and water really does work. Mind you, it's not a failsafe cure or I would be rolling in dough for inventing a post party kit with ibuprofen, a glass and a sleep mask and marketing the Hell out of it. You'll still feel a little ragged and narfy in the a.m., perhaps as if your head is full of Brillo pads and a gerbil slept in your mouth, but it can truly save you the next day. Trust me. I know it's not easy to make yourself do this after a long night of exquisite alcohol abuse, but if you try to make it a part of your regular routine before going to bed, you'll thank yourself the next day. This can also be a tricky maneuver if you've imbibed so much that you're actually stinking falling down/stumbling/passing out-drunk. Try your hardest to make yourself do it though. (Also be SURE you know exactly what pills you're swallowing. Mistaking Dulcolax for the ibuprofen can spell serious disaster! )

If you fail to do the ibuprofen/water regime, your options become rather limited when you've just pried open your swollen eyes to find yourself collapsed, hopefully in a bed, but worst of all, awake and the morning sun is pouring into your room as you forgot to make even a half ass attempt in your drunken stupor last night to fully close the blinds. Your pickled brain reviews the events of the previous evening and hopefully manages to reconstruct some sort of memory of at least a portion of the night's activities.

You feel like ass! This is usually the time when we all start making the well-known and soon forgotten "I'll-never-drink-again" declarations. You need help and quick before you spend the rest of the day alternately puking and sleeping in misery.

You need to start with the ‘after the fact’ remedies ASAP in the hope of reclaiming your body from the grips of hangover nightmare.

Drink liquids--think copious amounts--your body is dehydrated from all of the alcohol. As your electrolytes are totally out of whack, you need a combination of liquids, sodium and sugar. I go for the cool glass of water (sans ice) with a pinch of sugar and a pinch of salt. Some folks go for Gatorade. Gatorade is just too much for my system, especially if I am feeling nauseous. Nothing says hurl-o-rama like Gatorade if I am hung over.

Vitamins-all the alcohol you chugged down last night during the fun fest that was your evening out has effectively flushed away a significant supply of your body’s vitamins and nutrients. I am a firm believer in Emer’gen-C. That stuff is champion! (And no, I am not getting a nice kick back from the company to promote them maybe I should contact them about that…). This nifty little fizzy drink is a pretty good energy booster and contains tons of vitamin C (potent antioxidant), mineral complexes, B vitamins, electrolytes, and a bunch of other stuff. Fuck all amazing I tell you! Simple too, which totally works when your brain and body are barely functioning at simian, let alone human, levels. Just pour a package into some water, grasp it firmly in both of your trembling hands and suck it gratefully down.

After my guts settle down a bit, I usually try some food. In reality, you should avoid fatty and greasy foods as they tend to wreak havoc on your already torqued digestive system. I say bullshit! Nothing seems to wipe out a hangover for me like some serious greasy protein. Bring on the dead cows! Bring on the scrambled chicken zygotes! Nothing says loving like some Los Betos or random greasy neighborhood breakfast diner. Ah, shades of college. Roll your hungover ass into a nearby greasy spoon, indulge and roll back home to bed.

Which brings us to my last ‘secret’ weapon—sleep. It’s the best restorative. Your wasted body and mind need this. It’s the finest, and final, step in your recovery from a land of hurt.

Now, I know there are some folks who swear by hair of the dog which can work for some folks as adding more alcohol to your system helps numb your throbbing head. For me, it can either do the trick or send me spiraling over the edge into the deep end of the land of hurt pool. I say, best to avoid this method 99.7% of the time unless on vacation in a tropical paradise or Minnesota.

So if you’re going to drink, remember it’s not a necessity to drink your ass into oblivion on a regular basis (unless you are in college and then I highly recommend it) but if you do, remember Helloise’s (or Megoise’s which just doesn’t have the same pizzaz) Helpful Hangover Hints and maybe you’ll avoid yourself at least a portion of a land of hurt.

You can thank me in the new year....

I want my two dollars! AKA Shame on Butterflymall.com! A Rant by Guest Bloggist Deb
Mood:  on fire
Now Playing: My Chemical Romance : Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge
First off, I apologize in advance-this is going to be a seriously long bitch-fest post on my part, devoid of any humor (unless Meg edits and adds quality snark). I’m. That. Fricking. Mad. Over freaking $47 owed to me. Seriously. So here’s the story.

Last Christmas, being the intrepid bargain shopper that I am, I used a website called Butterflymall.com for a bunch of my gift purchases. Ya’ know, to save a little coin. For those of you unfamiliar with Butterflymall.com it is a shopping site where, when you make purchases from other retailers (like Nordstrom’s, Gap, etc.) through the butterflymall.com site, they promise you a percentage of your purchase as a rebate in the form of a future credit or mailed check AKA cash money. So if you go through their site and make a $100 purchase from say, Gap.com, they offer a 4% rebate off that purchase. The retailers pay Butterflymall.com a referral fee and they purport to send a percentage of the savings back to you. Sounded pretty sweet to me!

Stay with me here, it’s gonna’ get fugly.

Now there are a few of these sites that legitimately offer this advantage and are actually reputable, Ebates.com for example. I made a few purchases last year through them, requested my owed rebate check and it was delivered within a few weeks. What attracted me to Butterflymall.com was that their rebate percentages were much higher than the others and they were getting a bunch of press, so I signed up. (Once again proving that if it sounds to good to be true…it is!) All was good in the world of online shopping, until I nicely requested my promised rebate check.

It then turned quickly into a massively annoying poop fest!

To make a REALLY, REALLY long story short (unlike Meg, I can do that!), I made several requests for the aforementioned check, starting in mid-February, and by late September, I had received jack for my efforts but a few canned email responses telling me they were “processing” my request (after seven months? When their website states it takes a few weeks to a month) AKA ‘blah, blah,blah,blah…go away little missy.’ Come on! How stupid do you think I am? Apparently, a total moron…

Most sane people would have given up by now, as it is ‘only’ $47 at stake here. I say “No way Jose! Not on my watch!” They have thrown down the gauntlet after bitch slapping me with a totally stinky glove! I never give up on this kind of shit! Bring it on bitches! So I turned to Google, the search wagon of life, looking for other complaints. At first, not much turned up but shameless press releases given by their CEO, Dan Sonerhell. Oops, I’d better keep him anonymous, so we’ll just call him ‘San Oderhell’, who is a former public relations executive and now touted as an “Internet shopping guru”. PUHLEEZE! I mean, sure he might be great at P.R., but it is obvious he doesn’t know Dick, or Jane for that matter, about customer service!

Finally (finally!), I stumbled onto a website that had a message board where there were numerous posts from rampant fashionistas about Butterflymall.com, and how no one who used them received a check. EVER. This was one pissed-off group with post after post ranting about how they were duped out of their great bargain by Butterflymall.com’s refusal to send the promised rebate. Refusal, or completely inept business practices, no one could really decide which.

Here’s a tip: never, ever, piss off shopping-obsessed gals, because they are nothing if not bargain savvy! Hell, if I bought a $900 Louis Vuitton handbag via Butterflymall.com’s arrangement with eLuxury.com (which, BTW, offers a 5.6% rebate, reducing the cost of the bag by $50.40, IF they actually honored it-fat chance!), I’d rant all day long on a message board too. I found out from the fashionistas that the only way anyone EVER got their rebate from Butterflymall.com, was to report them to the Better Business Bureau.

Can you believe that steaming pile of crap?

So, I followed their advice and submitted a report to the BBB.org (Better Business Bureau), but not before I emailed Butterflymall.com one last time, telling them I was reporting them to BBB.org if I didn’t get the money they owed me.

Nothing. Nada. Zip. Zilch. No response. In fact, that rat bastard, ‘San Oderhell’, deleted my email without even opening it!

I now realize that I am dealing with a company whose employees and CEO have the collective intelligence of Jessica Simpson! I mean, WTF! Is it chicken or tuna?

About a month later I got an email from one of their representatives stating that Butterflymall.com researched the situation, realized I was owed money and that they had promptly sent me the check and they considered my case “closed”.

Mutha’ trucking liars!

It is now December of 2005 and I have yet to see my “promptly sent out check”. I just re-submitted a complaint with BBB.org, as well as Fraud.org, and Consumeraffairs.com for fraud.

Why expend all of this effort over a measly 47 bucks? Because nobody slaps me upside the head with a stinky glove and gets away with it! It’s all about the principle at this point! Seriously. My hope is twofold: One, that no other poor slob gets suckered in as I did by Butterfly.com and that two, others out there who are wondering why it’s taking eons to get their promised rebate checks, Google this company, stumble across my guest rant and realize that they aren’t going to get a check from Butterflymall.com in this lifetime or any other! Maybe they, too, will get pissed off enough to take a few minutes to report them to BBB.org. Or even better, one of the retailers paying this company referral fees will see this and yank their contract with Butterflymall.com!

(Hey, if you’re gonna dream why not dream really big!)

And maybe, just maybe, ‘San Oderhell’ and his merry band of village idiots, errrr scam artists, errrr employees, will get their act together and deliver on what they promise!

So buyer beware! Don’t buy into the happy promises painted by Butterflymall.com! You will come away from the experience feeling as bitter and unfulfilled as if you had just eaten an entire box of Snackwells…

I am SO not hiting on you!
Mood:  d'oh
Now Playing: Heaven 17
So I was at the dealership today finalizing my paperwork for ‘Hi-Ho’ my darling new silver beastie.

We had to swap out the loans as I was originally approved under their corporate financing and I wanted to exchange it for my own bank’s loan. We were just waiting on the paperwork from my bank to arrive.

Now, the guys I dealt with in fleet sales were total rockstars. I felt totally comfortable with them and it was the best experience I could have ever have hoped for in the trauma of the car buying experience. That is, until I had to deal with the freaky guy in the finance department.

I should have known something was up when the fleet sales manager, Dusty, prefaced my meeting with him with “I’m sorry, but Chaz is the only finance guy here today.” EEK! Ok, that doesn’t bode well and it didn’t.

To say this guy was an odd duck would be a massive understatement!

When I returned from dealing with him, the first words out of my mouth to Dusty were “That guy is so totally creepy!” and Dusty said “I know, sorry about that.”

In fact, this guy was so weird that I mentioned my meeting with him to a few of my friends. As in shudder! Ugh! Can you believe the freakshow!?!

Now, I am an abnormally happy and friendly broad. I also am extremely outgoing and can pretty much talk to anyone about anything comfortably. However, sometimes this tends to bite me in the ass as men always think I am hitting on them when I’m not.

Such is the case with Chaz.

I go into his office and within minutes, he is telling me all about the ultimatum his girlfriend gave him and how he dumped her because he “is a single dad with five wonderful kids..." and his "kids have to come first…” and that “she gave me an ultimatum and I showed her the door.” Uh, ok. That’s really nice and all. Can we just finish the paperwork so I can bail with ‘Hi Ho’? Then he keeps checking his phone for text messages, supposedly from her, (while grimacing and making snarky comments to me about them). OY! Come on! Then he aks me what I think about it. Think about what? I don’t know her, I don’t know you. Puhleeze! Do I look like an extremely fashionable Dear Abby?

Which leads us to my other problem: random strangers always seem to feel uber comfortable telling me their deep, dark secrets/issues/ life stories, etc. without any encouragement. This is why I slap on headphones for any flight I am taking so that I am not stuck in a seat next to someone for the next 3-5 hours listening to their deep, dark secrets/issues/ life stories, etc. I know that sounds harsh, but you have no idea the weird ass shit random strangers have shared with me starring as the unwilling listener.

I don’t want to hear about how you cheated on your LSATs (ick!), that you enjoy watching Teletubbies (double ick!), that you stole from your last job (felonious ick!) that you have a collection of all of your scabs (medical waste ick!), that you cheated on your wife (adulterous ick!), how when you were a child your dog was hit by a car and died in front of you (so horribly sad and ick!), about the time you experimented with LSD in the Army while on a tour of duty in Bosnia (unpatriotic and unprofessional ick!), how your ex-girlfriend, "that bitch", got a restraining order against you just because you “smacked her once when she needed to calm the Hell down” (assault ick!), how you wish trolls, elves, unicorns, etc. were real (Middle Earth ick!), how much you love the music of Def Leppard (long hair 80s music ick!) and the list goes on and on. Scarier? All those examples are real information that folks, random strangers mind you, have voluntarily confided to me. What?! Do I have the words “Please tell me your freaky shit” stamped on my forehead?!

As I walked into the dealership tonight, I quickly glanced over at the finance office in the hope that Chaz wasn’t in. Whew! No sign of him!

I meandered back to the fleet area. As I was greeted by the guys, the first thing out of my mouth was “Am I going to have to deal with Chaz again? He totally gave me the creeps!”

Dusty started laughing and said “No, he’s not here. Funny you should mention him though. After you left the other day, he came in and told us all how you were totally hitting on him…” WTF?! “Are you kidding me?” I asked, “I thought he was a total skeeve.” Dusty, still laughing, said “Yeah, I know. So I told him, that’s not what I heard.”

Oy! Just what I need--one more random dude thinking that because I laugh a lot and didn’t cut him off at the knees during his bizarre-o ranting that I am all into him and hitting on him.

For future reference guys, you will know in spades if I’m hitting on you. Just ask Mr. Pierced/Tattooed who walked into one of my events a few weeks ago. I was on that shit immediately and hard. Walked out within 10 minutes after exchanging phone numbers with him.

In the meantime, if a chick is being nice to you, don't assume that A) she wants you bad and B) she wants to hear your weird ass deep, dark secrets/issues/ life stories, etc. If she's hitting on you, trust me, you'll know!

POST SCRIPT: All I had to do was say to my girlfriends today "Hey, remember that creepy finance guy I told you about?" and they were all like "Ew! Yeah--what about him?" so I told them about how he told the fleet guys I was hitting on him. It was good for a chuckle...

Megan Looks Just Like...
Mood:  silly
Now Playing: Glen Miller
When I was a ‘small’ (the term I use when I refer to all kids under 6 yrs of age), not only did I not speak intelligible English, I apparently closely resembled a Benedictine monk sans the burlap robe, rope belt, and Barney Rubble feet. I had a halo of golden brown hair around my head like a monk’s fringe and no eyebrows to speak of. Just ginormous brown eyes perched above rosy cheeks. No wonder I am such a whack job after that childhood…but I digress.

We lived in a cul de sac in our neighborhood in No Cal. The only other kids around that were near in age to me (3) and my older sister, Lindsay, (6) (of f-bomber fame) were the Jaworski kids across the street. Their parents were doctors and Chrissy Jaworski was one of those ‘odd’ children. Here was this beautiful, blonde, fairytale princess child who, at 6, was uber serious and could discuss probably most anything on par mentally with at least a tenth grader, if not a drunken frat boy.

So one day, while my mom’s parents, Grams and Gramps Keyes, were in town when Lindsay and Chrissy came tumbling into our house after some hardcore playing outside. I was just minding my own Goddamn business, as 3-year olds are wont to do, hanging out in my playpen when Chrissy commented to no one in general “Megan looks just like a little man.” WTF?! (This is my adult self being enraged over this insult to my mute monk of a 3-year old self)

My grandparents were sitting nearby reading in front of the fire (Oh so Norman Rockwell). My Gramps, upon hearing Chrissy’s comment on my apparent manly yet monkish good looks, says “Well, how do you know she’s not a little man Chrissy?” And Chrissy looks puzzled and replies “Because she’s a little girl Mr. Keyes.” To which Gramps responds “But how do you know she’s a little girl Chrissy?” And Chrissy, again, looks perplexed and replies back “Because I just know she’s a girl Mr. Keyes.” (Ever the respectful kid wasn’t she?). Gramps, being Gramps, just can’t let it go so he says again “But how do you know she’s not a little man Chrissy?” to which Chrissy responded “Because she doesn’t have a penis Mr. Keyes.”

I believe apoplectic is the only way to describe Gramp’s reaction.

He started stuttering and stammering and completely freaking out. Understandable, as I’m sure that was the very last response he ever expected his teasing to elicit from Chrissy, the little blonde angel.

The classic end to this story? As Gramps was completely losing his mind, Grams apparently never looked up from the book she was reading. All she said, never even batting an eye, was “Well, you asked for it Jim.”

Classic.

The Games We Play...
Mood:  mischievious
Now Playing: Depeche Mode
So I went out with this guy a week or so ago. He wasn’t my ‘normal’ type, but he held his own in spades when it came to intelligence and verbal sparring. That, in itself, is uber sexy to me. Grrrrrrrrrrrrr! We ended up having a super fun time! He told me that he wanted to see me again and soon…I fully concurred! As I already had set plans the next night, as did he, we made plans to go out Sunday after my trail ride.

Sunday came and after 5 hours in the saddle swilling beer and racing up and down South Mountain, I was pretty wiped out and pretty tanked. I called ‘Walt’ to check in and in reality, cancel. I knew that if I didn’t get my drunken self into a hot tub ASAP, I was going to be hella’ sore Monday at work. So I called and left a message and rolled myself into my buddy Bruce’s hot tub to stew my incredibly sore ass for a few hours. Surprise, surprise, I never heard back from 'Walt'. Hmmmmmmm… go figure.

Now I’m super easy going. I figured something came up and as I was calling to cancel anyway, all was cool in the universe so I called 'Walt' on Monday and left him a message basically letting him know that. No return call. Odd. Ok, stuff happens. He changed his mind about wanting to see me again, whatever. To refer to one of my favorite phrases, shit happens. Would it have been cool to go out with him again. Sure. Would anything have come of it? Who knows. Again, I’m not really looking for a relationship right now so whatever…

Fast forward to Friday, 9pm-ish. I’ve picked up the new beastie and I am enjoying myself at the Suns’ game with my date when I get a text message. A text message from ‘Walt’ “What’s up? What r u doing?” LMAO! Are you kidding me? I don’t know what was more amusing-the fact that ‘Walt’ would assume I had no plans on a Friday night or that he thought that he could text me after totally blowing me off, and if I had no plans, I would what? Call him to be a last minute, after thought hook up? Puhleeze! I laughed so hard I was in tears!

Why you ask? Because it totally reminded me of high school! Let amateur hour begin! I am finding the whole thing uber amusing! I am just out of practice in the game playing arena. I don’t think I’ve had that ‘pleasure’ since high school or possibly freshman year of college. So I send him a text message Saturday a.m. telling him I was off buying a new beastie knowing full well he wasn’t going to return the text. Hee, hee! Let the games begin! I am finding this beyond amusing and fun!

He didn’t return the text message, as I knew he wouldn’t. Sooooooooo predictable! So I called him yesterday (I knew he wouldn’t answer the phone) to apologize for not getting back to him Friday, but I was at the Suns’ game with a date. Hee, hee!

OMG! I’m telling you, this is a gas! I am figuring that I’ll either never hear from him again or he’ll text me again in his own time. I rather hope he’ll text me again this Friday night. I just think that this is hilarious!

If I sound harsh, I’m sorry. I rather liked this guy and looked forward to hanging out with him some more. It’s a rarity for me to go out with someone that I actually want to see a second time. Especially someone who totally challenged me mentally and to be honest, was a great kisser. I was rather surprised and bummed that he cheesed out this way and I find the totally juvenile way he has dealt with me deserves the same. I am in no way mad, upset, pissed, etc. I am horribley amused by a 34-year old acting like a goofy teenage boy. (Hey 'Walt', there is still time to recover the situation!)

At least I’m not so into high school mode that I’m texting him every hour with “Lame! Lame!Lame!”

I only did it once…

Nothing like a Stalker...
Mood:  d'oh
Now Playing: Jeff Beck
I ran into my ex-husband yesterday morning at Target. Bad news? I looked like Hell! I rolled out of bed after a looooooong and fun date night and roared over to get stuff done before the crazy crowds hit. Good news? A) He looked way worse than I did (and not in the good ‘I had a rocking date last night’ way) and B) He noticed that I had a late night as he commented “Oh, looks like you had a late night…” in a rather snotty tone. To which I responded "Oh yeah!"...hee, hee--I'm fricking evil sometimes!

I think what totally creeped me out was when he then asked me how I was enjoying my new car. What?! The new car I got barely 12 hours ago? I guess I looked freaked out because he quickly responded “Uh, well, with the traffic detour and all, I, uh, have to go by your house.” (we do live a few blocks apart). You mean the traffic detour that ended on the 9th? You have to go by my house?Hmmmmmm…looks like we are back to the same problem I always seem to have with him. He likes to do drive bys to see what I’m doing and then gets bitter when it involves other guys. Even a gated community didn’t deter his energetic spying efforts.

As I’ve said before, my father says that I tend to bring out obsessive tendencies in guys. Even after being divorced for three years, my ex still hasn’t gotten over it. It’s a common problem. Not to sound snotty, but apparently, once you go Megan, you never go back. One ex told me it was the “randomness” of me. Hmmmm…ok. I have had more stalkers and just slightly fewer restraining orders than any one broad needs in a lifetime. I went out with a guy, Big John, for 6 weeks over two years ago and like clockwork, he shows up at my office every 6 months or so begging for a second chance. He’s changed. Jeesh! Get over it!

I still have my original stalker from high school. He is another one. Being caught in a police sting operation set up by my parents over 22 years ago, apparently didn’t dissuade him. Over the years, he has tried to contact me through my sorority in college, my sorority alumni group after college, my parents, by attempting to bribe a 411 operator into giving him my number (I am unlisted for a reason), through classmates.com, etc. It’s spooky I tell you!

So the long and short of it, I guess I’ll have to start parking the new beast behind my house in order to confuse and cause consternation in my ex.

The things I have to do…

Friday Night Is All Right For Shopping?
Mood:  happy
Now Playing: Jet Boy Jet Girl
So I spent Friday night as I usually do Friday nights. Not! I spent a good portion of Friday night in Mesa, Land of the Mormons, car shopping. UGH!

Usually car shopping sucks weasel. Big, fat, pink weasel and then some. When I bought my Jeep Grand Cherokee, the sales guy at Earnhardt pissed me off so bad, I told him I was done and got up and left. He proceeded to follow me out and across the street to Chuy’s where I ordered a pitcher of margaritas and a straw.

I’ve been lucky in that I’ve never really had to car shop. Some man has always done it for me. My dad. My friends. My ex-husband. I HATE dealing with it! My standard line is “I’m just here to pick out the color…” Last time, with my ex-husband, that didn’t work as I ended up with a car I didn’t want (sniff, sniff over my black Tahoe I didn’t get) because it wasn’t worth the battle but I digress.

‘Big Red’ as I lovingly (not) called the chili pepper colored bastard beast SUV I did end up with after the last car shopping trip was a POS from the get go. Five years later, I seemed to be standing graveside of it on a regular basis and I wasn’t crying over its near death. In the last year, I have dumped cash into it with startling regularity. That ginormous sucking noise? The bleeding chest wound of car repairs. $1,400 within a year and it still needed at least $1,000 more and that was before I noticed that the window motors were starting to go. I know when to throw in the towel—when the car is out of warranty and falling apart in vastly different areas.

So it was time to get a new beastie. The very thought filled me with all sorts of trepidation. I had no desire to haggle and argue with some kid, that in other circumstances, I’d usually try to hit on.

I started hitting up friends for contacts in car sales. I got hooked up with a friend of mine’s ex-husband (yes, they’re on good terms) in fleet sales. WAHOO!!!

In a matter of 20 minutes, a little hottie had taken me around to see the 3 models I was interested in and I picked one. I believe in love at first sight—especially with cars. With the exception of ‘Big Red’, it was love at first sight with the ‘Snaggin’ Wagon’, ‘Little Red’, ‘Nugget mo’, ‘Speed Racer’, ‘Jeepster’ and now, ‘Hi Ho’ (she’s silver). (Yes, I am a total dork and I name all my cars).When you're in love with a cute silver beastie...

I was in and out in an hour with my new baby and off to the Sun’s game for a hot date night only marred by a highly amusing text message which is a story for another time.

Ah! I love the scent of new car in the morning!

The Purity Test
Mood:  mischievious
Now Playing: Fun Boy Three
The other night I was online and noticed that my friend Deb was on IM. The next thing you know we’re gabbing up a storm in cyber space. Being possessed of rather off the wall senses of humor, we start discussing the weirdest stuff we have seen on the Internet. She tells me to Google ‘tub girl’ and won’t give me a hint as to what I’ll find. What I found nearly made me hurl. Mind you, I have a cast iron stomach-I eat the tacos from the street vendors in odd Mexican border towns. So I counter with clown porn-not as graphic, but still odd. Pretty soon we are comparing notes on all kinds of freaky shit we have found on the Internet. She answers with ‘lemon city’ and I parry with orbital sex. Things start getting out of hand. I start telling her about all the freakshow stuff my friend Dale told me about. Dale is a former U.S. Marshall and has been in law enforcement for more years than I’ve been alive. He also has a PhD in psychology and runs a company called Forensitec which involves the field of psycholinguistics and other hi-tech stuff. Basically, he can read writing samples from people and determine if there is deception involved among other things. Way cool, but I digress.

After a couple of beverages, Dale and I got into a discussion one night about aberrant behavior and fetishes (which I refer to as Feti) as he researched them for a thesis or so he says. He filled me in on the ‘joys’ of ‘plushies’ (people who have sex with stuffed animals or while dressed in mascot uniforms), blow up doll porn (self explanatory), those who enjoy the ‘hot lunch’ (having someone drop a steaming dookie in your mouth), etc. Basically, he filled me in on all kinds of shit I had no idea existed and basically ruined my trust in human nature. I now subject my dates to WAY closer scrutiny although the freaks keep slipping through my radar.

So Deb and I are bandying about all this stuff, alternately laughing and shuddering. The result was that I wondered if I was too uptight or just naive. I know Deb’s pretty straight laced (sorry babe, I love you but it’s the truth) but what about me? I always thought I was a pretty open-minded chick. I have my own feti and proclivities, tame as they may be, so who am I to give the smack down on others’ just because I find them completely unappealing or downright repulsive.

I came across a ‘purity’ test during these IMs and Deb & I decided to take it while we were online. It is comprised of 1,000 questions. I know that seems like a lot, but you can pretty much whip through as you just check the boxes of the ones you answer yes to. There were whole sections I skipped and sections where I was glad they had an explanation of what they were asking as I was clueless.

My results? I answered ‘yes’ to 461 out of the 1,000 questions. This made me 53.9% sexually pure and 46.1% sexually corrupt. I was pretty excited about my results until Deb announced that she had scored 73% in purity, being only 27% corrupt. Oh shit! Was I on a one way out of control freight train to Hell?! Turns out she was just higher than the average. The average purity result for this test out of the 62,460 folks who took it was 72.2%. Somehow I think people were lying on their answers.

So the next day at work, I encourage some co-workers to take it, hoping to feel better. Saffron scored a 76%--EEEEK! However, Sasha, scored 50% pure which didn’t make me feel much better as she is an active bi-sexual. I think my score plummeted in the categories of “Have you ever had someone suck your toes” and “Have you ever mashed with more than one person in an evening” and “Have you done multiple body shots off of hot college boys”. I still can’t figure out where I went ‘wrong’ on it. I admit, I like insane ‘circus sex’ as my ex-would call it, sans the midgets, but in the confines of a monogamous relationship and really not all that freaky. I swear.

I know you’re wondering now what your freakshow errr, I mean purity factor is. Take the test. Let me know what your score is…but only if it’s lower than mine. I don’t need a complex!

http://www.armory.com/tests/sex1000.html

My First Word
Mood:  silly
Now Playing: Benise
I know many of you will find this hard to believe, but I didn’t speak a word until I was three years old. Not a single intelligible word. No ‘mom’, ‘puppy’, ‘dad’, ‘hotdog’, etc. I had a bastard language all my own and my older sister, Lindsay, acted as my personal interpreter to the world. I would say “shub zah toodag blu” and Lindsay would get a pained look on her face and sigh heavily before translating “Mom, Megan wants a hot dog with extra ketchup.” (The only way I eat hot dogs still to this day).

Needless to say, this caused some consternation to my folks and to my grandparents. Namely my mom’s parents, Gramps and Grams Keyes. I was put through a battery of tests to determine if I was deaf, slow, really slow, autistic, insane, etc. Grams was just certain that I was mentally retarded and urged mom to have me put in ‘the home’ many a time. Kind of held that against the old broad for part of my life, but I digress.

Our family doctor explained that there was nothing physically or mentally wrong with me. He said that I would talk when I wanted to and why should I when Lindsay always acted as my official ‘Meganspeak’ interpreter?

One day I was sitting at our upright, free-standing bamboo bar in the family room of our home in No Cal. Mom had just brought me a hotdog with extra ketchup. I was sitting on the bar stool swinging my little sturdy legs back and forth. THUD! I had kicked the bar. It shimmied a little and I liked that. So I kicked it again, this time a little harder and it shuddered in response. THUD! So I kicked it harder. THUD! This went on for a few minutes until I kicked it really hard with both feet and CRASH! The entire bar, along with my favorite lunch, went crashing to the ground. Oops! Mom came running in and apparently, I looked at her with my big brown eyes and clearly said “fuck”. OOOPS!

Mom said she was torn between being thrilled that I had spoken a clear English word and not ‘Meganspeak’ and the fact that I had cursed. (NOTE: I could only have learned that word from my older sister, the translator, who was then severely punished for potty mouth). From that point on, I spoke in full sentences as if I had always spoken and as my father says, I’ve been making up for it ever since.

Surprisingly enough, ‘Meganspeak’ has survived to this day. I have my own made up words and turns of phrase that those who know me completely understand in a whacked way and have casually adopted as part of their own vernacular.

For example, my gynecologist uses ‘narfy’ on a regular basis to describe something that is just not quite right or good. I.e., What’s that narfy smell in the bathroom? (Hopefully not a random dookie!)

My doctor, when inquiring about pain level, asks me if it ‘hurts like fuck all with a serious top spin’.

My assistant tosses in the phrase ‘I was all shades of…(fill in the blank)’ into her conversations on a regular basis. I.e., I was all shades of bitter when the concert sold out.

My former step-chilluns bandy about the phrase ‘Bet you a nickel’ whenever they want to demonstrate that they are certain they are right.

The list goes on and on…funny that those who know and love me have adopted or adapted to ‘Meganspeak’. Good thing Grams didn’t lock me up in the nutter bin…or not depending on who you ask…

However, those of you who know me well are not at all surprised that my first word was an ‘f-bomber’ now are you?

It's Gotta' Be the Perfume...
Mood:  surprised
Now Playing: Depeche Mode - Violator
I never have a problem getting dates. My problem seems to be finding dates who I actually want to go out with a second time. Seriously. You’ve read my weird musings and over the top rants. You have to realize that I’m not the average bear. It takes a specific kind of guy to deal with me. Someone who enjoys and appreciates the unexpected randomness of me and doesn’t want to try to curb it. Ain’t gonna’ happen bitch!

Lately, it seems like guys are coming out of the fricking woodwork! It must be my perfume as most of them seem to huff me and huff me deeply…continuously. I seem to be harkening back to my ring master days……I am running a multi-ring circus again and loving every minute of it. I am enjoying the endless dating, but the main reason is that I haven’t met anyone I would want to date seriously. I’m just enjoying meeting new people, flirting and having fun. I really have no desire for anything more…especially as no one comes close to fitting the bill of something more.

The weirder part is the random freaks who keep coming up to me out of nowhere! It’s really starting to creep me out! What is it pheromones? Examples? I had a guy come up to me while standing in line to get a beer at a hockey game. He seemed really normal as we casually chatted. Cute even. That was until he looked deep into my eyes and said “God, I really want to smell your hair.” WHAT? WTF?! EWWWWWWWWWWW! I grabbed my beer and bailed! Then there was the cute freak who approached me in Walgreen’s and told me that he had seen me three times in the last week. I calmly asked him if he was stalking me. He then told me that he noticed I always took care of my feet and hands. Well, one out of two was right. I am a fanatic about pedicures but my hands resemble a farmer’s. I garden. I have a horse. I am an artist. My hands are a mess. The only time they pass for ok is after a hard core manicure and some Lee Press On Nails. He then goes on to say that his mother told him that women who take good care of themselves will always take good care of him. Errrrrrrrr, whatever. I told him I was late for a date and bolted to my car. No small feat in light of the fact I was in 6 1/2 ‘CFM’ shoes.

Now mind you, those aren’t even the guys I’ve gone out with. Here’s the short list of one hit wonders:

• Captain I am one quarter Hispanic-who told me that I looked like “the type of girl who knows how to properly treat a Latino man.” For what? A gunshot wound? PUHLEEZE! I ain’t nobody’s barefoot mamacita!
• Mr. Gillette-who told me within the first 5 minutes of our date about how he shaves his “entire body” on a regular basis. “I mean why have armpit hair if I don’t have to.” Hmmmmmmmmm…TOO MUCH INFORMATION BITCH! GACK! I don’t want to know intimate details of your personal hygiene routine within minutes of our first ‘let’s trade life stories in a bar' date.
• Officer Creepy-a cop who proceeded to tell me that my name made him hot as he had a babysitter named Meg when he was a kid and “she was hot like you are. I used to think about her all the time and it made me excited. I never got over her. I still think about her. I love your name. It brings back all kinds of memories.” Yeah. I don’t even want to address this creepy one. Didn’t she ever cuff him upside the head and tell him he’d go blind?
• Matty Senior-an older version of my ex boyfriend. Super hot. Super sexy. Super useless. 33 years old. Career bartender with ambitions of being an actor although not actively trying cuz’ you know Spielberg’s going to discover you during a Pourmasters’ gig. Yeah right. Lives with 3 roomates in a four bedroom house and called me ‘sister’ all night and told me I was ‘solid’. AKA grow the fuck up. Like I need another Peter Pan wanna’ be at this point. Even scarier—knows Matty. Shoot me now.
• The Smooth Talker-at first, it seemed like he was a definite possibility for a second date and possibly an addition to the ‘regulars’ date roster. He was charming, intelligent, great at the verbal sparring I so dearly enjoy, got my wacky humor, etc. It started with a niggling concern that something just wasn’t jiving with him. I wondered if there was a possibility he was gay or at least actively bisexual as he drank pussy drinks and would have made Paul Lind blush with his flaming fag hands. If he’s not gay, I’m 99.9% certain he’s married and just a total nasty disgusting loser scumbag. Something about him was just not right—totally non-genuine vibes. Makes my skin crawl to even think about it! UGH!

While the cretin filled freakshow seems to parade on, I will continue to hang with the ongoing date roster and see what happens and who else stumbles along. I like them. They’re fun. There’s just no major “ZAH! I want a piece of that!” feeling going on with any of them. But at least I’m not worrying about whether or not I will need to beat them off me with a stick or have to resort to pepper spray.

My father always says I “bring out obsessive tendencies in men.” I’m still hoping it’s just my perfume or seasonal pheromones...

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Things I learned Over the Weekend...
Mood:  a-ok
Now Playing: Oingo Boingo
Things I learned over the weekend...

*The actors/actresses on Spanish soap operas are usually beyond unattractive

*There are some guys with pierced tongues who actually know what to do with them

*When a gay man refers to a "Jolly Rancher", he isn't talking about the candy

*Spending hours trying to get as many super cool toys as my budget allows for my office's annual toy drive for homeless children fills my heart with unbridled joy

*Horse farts, although twice or more as large capacitywise as dog farts, do not smell nearly as rank

*When black girls fight they will automatically go for each other's fake hairpieces first

Reality Check...Testing. One.Two.
Mood:  incredulous
Now Playing: Death Cab for Cutie
So Saturday, I went out for later evening drinks with my former step child—the ever intrepid ‘Junior’ (cool nickname for a super cool chick).

We’re lounging at Longitude 30, quaffing back the uber dirty Grey Goose ‘tinis and catching up on all the schtuff that has happened since she graduated college and ventured up to Chi Town for her Master’s degree…in art…and flippy cup(AKA partying).

At some point during our ruminations and gigglefest, her pop (my ex husband the chucklehead) comes up.

Chucklehead has a problem with reality among other things. Reality as in what really happened during our marriage and why I filed for divorce and left. The reality is that chucklehead cheated on me with his skank (and trust me, that’s being kind and gracious) ex girlfriend and managed to get her knocked up with his lame, white bread attempts at sex. He was shocked that I wanted a divorce, filed, moved out and moved on. Completely floored. He apparently was under the extreme misconception that I would tough it out or something…as if. Sometimes one just has to draw the line at bastard children.

This reality, however, is not what chucklehead tells everyone, including his own children, who know me, know the situation and therefore, know better. He tells everyone who will listen that he filed for divorce after I had a year long affair with his “best friend”. (Matty, don’t waste perfectly good liquor spitting in surprise as I did that you two were B.F.F.s). Hmmmmmm...interesting. I started dating a guy he played hockey with (who was closer to chucklehead’s nephew and me than he ever was to chucklehead) AFTER I filed for divorce and moved out.

I just have to laugh at the life of a wanna’ be martyr…what a chucklehead!

Things I'm Thankful For...
Mood:  happy
Now Playing: Al Green
In the spirit of the Thanksgiving holiday and my birthday, here is a list of "Things I'm Thankful For".

In no particular order, I am thankful for:

• Good friends
• Fraiser’s Smoke House
• An NHL Hockey season
• Guinness beer
• My furries
• My health
• Sushi at Sakana
• New guy prospects
• Rainy days in front of a fire
• Beach volleyball
• I will be exhibiting a piece of my art at the First Friday art walk downtown Dec. 2 at the Phoenix Center
• Irregular Choice Peacock Mules
• 9 days off of work—VACATION!!!
• Happy hour
• Free concert tickets
• Hammocks
• Red Brick Pizza
• My family (most of the time)
• Sunsets
• Last minute road trips
• Homemade Irish Cream
• Sunday football and beer
• A sweet ass on a guy
• Dr. Seuss
• Longitude 30 (the bar)
• Radar magazine
• King crab legs
• My boss
• The art of Baron Dixon
• Straw cowboy hats and pigtails
• The laughter of small children
• Reconnecting with old friends
• The smell of hay
• Music of all kinds
• Double spice Chai black tea from Stash
• “Two Buck Chuck” (Charles Shaw) wine
• Suede jeans
• Naps
• Laughing until I cry
• Cooking dinner with friends/significant others
• Warm sheets on a cold morning
• The creosote smell after a rainstorm
• Convertible sports cars
• Grilling
• Late night parties
• Janet Evanovich books
• The beach anywhere
• Xanax when flying
• Dark Chocolate
• Lee Press On Nails (instant ‘adult’ hands)
• Hollywood gossip
• Long makeout sessions
• The Family Guy
• Oversized soft towels
• Fresh flowers
• More shoes...hee, hee
• Naked pool time
• A good steak
• Professional deep tissue massages
• The Thin Man Series
• Motorcycle rides
• Chuy's
• Midget wrestling
• Garlic mashed potatoes
• Three olives cherry vodka
• Craigslist
• Arrested Development
• Hiking
• Flat irons
• Vin Diesel
• Three day weekends
• TiVo
• Messy-in-a-good-way hair on guys
• Frequent flier miles
• Fun yet not packed and noisy bars
• Camera phones
• Day drinking
• College football (except USC)

I hope you and yours have a fabulous T-day filled with love, laughter and plenty of drinking games (go flippy cup!) Feel free to post what you're thankful for..g'ahead, join the fun!

Vegas Baby!
Mood:  vegas lucky
Now Playing: Santana
My cousin called up and she and her boyfriend were in Vegas and wanted me to do a weekend scramble to meet them. I, being game pretty much always for the road trip, packed up and hopped the next flight to Sin City for a weekend of drinking and debauchery (or great hopes thereof).

What can I report after said weekend? I drank, drank, drank, saw the Blue Man Group, drank, got pissed off that Avenue Q the dirty puppet show was sold out, drank, got massaged by some hot metrosexual 20-something (unfortunately legitimately at the spa at the hotel—get your minds out of the gutter folks) saw Zoomanity, drank, shopped, gambled lightly (boring!), danced, drank and flew home a very tired and hungover little peep.

So basically, I have jack shit to report and I am beyond bummed about it! No great “what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas’ stories. In fact, I didn’t even see any hot guys while there unless you include the Chippendales dancers... Vegas was populated last weekend with teeming hoards of old broads from the Midwest running around in those stupid ass red hats. UGH!

Here’s what I do have. I am posting one of my favorite Vegas stories, as told in IM fashion, by my friend Kevin over at Fuelfire. Ah the joys of 20-something…enjoy!

Wanted: 2-In-1 Body and Soul Cleanser (originally posted by Kevin)

I haven't had a drop of alcohol or a puff of smoke in nearly 80 hours. "So fucking what?" a handful of you may be inclined to inquire. Well, for those of you that know me as more than just the ridiculously handsome Fuelfire columnist that writes schleppy blurbs about extraordinary news articles or an occasional marginally entertaining anecdote, you know that for me it's a feat that parallels the scaling of Everest without oxygen assistance.

Why have I abstained from my vices for this long? The answer is simple: Too much Vegas. Last weekend marked the first of two trips in two weeks; the next being on Friday, the 13th of August, indeed an ominous date to embark on a journey that promises to be every bit as destructive to my physical, spiritual and monetary being as the last, if not more so. The way I felt on Sunday's return trip home was indescribable. It was as if someone had strapped me down and injected Pine Sol into my liver until it ballooned to the size of a champion state fair eggplant. Despite having a tonsillectomy at age 19, my throat was nearly closed from smoking an entire pack of Camel Lights each night. My feet and ankles were so swollen and raw that it looked like I had hiked down the Grand Canyon barefoot. Cuts and bruises adorn my body like a championship K-1 kick boxer who made it to the final round... and lost. I need to take it easy for awhile. I've yinned way too hard and now it's time to yang a little bit.

I debated for some time as to whether I would recount some of the tales here or not. Undoubtedly, my story of Friday night will make me look like something less than the All-Star human being everyone takes me for, but the story is simply too heroic to keep to myself. Rather than converting my story of that evening into prose, I'll let the AIM conversation yesterday morning between Matt and myself do the talking. Enjoy...

[Note: Edited for length, content, and to protect the lives of those I love, now, in the past and in the future.]

POWER: yo yo, how was it?
Fuelfire: Fun. But I'm poorer, both monetarily and physically.
POWER: Any good stories?
Fuelfire: Vegas is always nothing but stories.
POWER: Yeah I know, but tell me some fool
Fuelfire: Nothing on the dirty hooze side of things. I had a room to myself and never took advantage of it.
Fuelfire: On Friday, I started drinking at 3, and never stopped.
POWER: Aww, no shit? Why’d you mess that up
Fuelfire: Check this...
POWER: you should have gotten mad hoes in yo’ room
Fuelfire: I had five 16 ounce beers by the pool, then got ready to go out and left to go get a bottle of wine to pregame with these hoozeballs we went with.
Fuelfire: drank the whole bottle minus one glass and then went to dinner
Fuelfire: where I had 2 or 3 more glasses of red wine
Fuelfire: then we walked to studio 54
Fuelfire: I was there with Nick and his girlfriend and another couple
Fuelfire: so I was like, "this sucks, I'm gonna go talk to some hooze"
Fuelfire: but I thought at that point I needed more alcohol to help me out
POWER: haha
Fuelfire: While I was there, I had 6 vodka redbulls and 6 bud lights
Fuelfire: I have no idea what happened after that
POWER: Jesus
Fuelfire: But here's what I do know...
Fuelfire: I remember leaving because only ugly chicks were coming up to me
Fuelfire: and I couldn't talk
Fuelfire: so the next thing I know, I am in some casino
Fuelfire: I still don't know which one
Fuelfire: I have fallen down about 3 times just trying to walk
Fuelfire: I kept riding this freight elevator
Fuelfire: thinking I was at the Monte Carlo
Fuelfire: but I wasn't
Fuelfire: and there was no 9th floor
POWER: Dude, and you are still alive ?
Fuelfire: and I went back down like 3 more times
Fuelfire: the last time, 2 security guards were waiting for me
Fuelfire: I don't remember what was said, I just remember one looked very concerned and the other was laughing
Fuelfire: people were ghosts at this point
Fuelfire: I have no idea what time it was
POWER: how did you make it back?
Fuelfire: here's the rest...
Fuelfire: on the way back, I was so disoriented that I estimate it took me about 2 hours to find my way home from the MGM to the Monte Carlo, which is more or less across the strip
Fuelfire: somehow, I was standing in front of the Excalibur and fell down in the landscaping by the drawbridge
POWER: hahaha
Fuelfire: I must have been there for a good 30 minutes
Fuelfire: I woke up and I had pissed myself all down my left leg
Fuelfire: seriously dude
Fuelfire: unfuckingreal how bombed I was
Fuelfire: from that point, I remember smoking my last cigarette all wet-legged trying to find my way home
POWER: fuck
Fuelfire: I have no idea how I got there, but the next thing I knew I was in the parking garage of New York New York
Fuelfire: and I saw the Monte Carlo
Fuelfire: and knew that's where I had to be
POWER: so proud of you
Fuelfire: so I walked around the parking garage trying to find a way out, and the only way I could see there being a way was over this 10 foot barbed wire fence that opened up into a parking lot that went to the street towards the Monte Carlo
Fuelfire: so, with a BAC of about .35, I climbed the fence where there was a planter that gave me about 4 feet of leeway to start
Fuelfire: but it was still topped with barbed wire, and it was still 10 feet down to the other side
Fuelfire: somehow I made it down without leaving an arm stuck on the top
Fuelfire: nor did I break anything on the way down
POWER: wow
Fuelfire: Yeah, I think I had Jesus in my pocket
Fuelfire: but I remember just sitting up there on top of the barbed wire with my hands bleeding wondering if I should jump or figure out another way home
Fuelfire: the next thing I know, it was noon the next day
POWER: hahaha
Fuelfire: no recollection of anything after the fence
Fuelfire: my sheets were all bloody
Fuelfire: I have a huge slice on my pinky, puncture wounds in my left hand, a nasty raspberry both on the inside of my left elbow
Fuelfire: and on my knee
Fuelfire: a bruise above my left eye
Fuelfire: a deep bruise on my upper left thigh
Fuelfire: one of my rings was split at the seam
Fuelfire: one of my shoes has a huge gash from the barbed wire
Fuelfire: I remember when I woke up the next day, the first thing I did was start laughing
Fuelfire: I couldn't even believe I was laying there
Fuelfire: I had almost no idea how I arrived
Fuelfire: I was just amazed that I ended up there and not in jail or the hospital
Fuelfire: I thought I left my credit card at 54 and went to the MGM security desk to get it on Saturday
Fuelfire: they said they didn't have it
Fuelfire: so I was kind of wigging out thinking I lost it
Fuelfire: but when I got back to the hotel, sho' 'nuff there it was in the back pocket of my jeans
Fuelfire: I actually closed my tab
Fuelfire: you should see the fucking receipt
Fuelfire: you would laugh your ass off
Fuelfire: It was actually correct - I did the right math and everything, but the way I signed it was unreal
Fuelfire: I wrote the tip where the printed total was
Fuelfire: I wrote the total where the tip goes
Fuelfire: and I signed where the total amount goes
Fuelfire: and my signature is nightmarish
Fuelfire: you could tell I wrote it, but it is so fucked up
Fuelfire: it curves and trails off upwards to the left
Fuelfire: I will admit, it was one of the top 3 drunkest times of my life. I was completely gone. And it’s pretty tough to navigate a strange place when you're by yourself falling down everywhere with a near-lethal BAC.
POWER: Yeah I bet
Fuelfire: I didn't even remember any of the fence part until I walked out of the casino and saw it across the street by the New York New York. Until then, I had no idea why blood was everywhere.
Fuelfire: I have to think that whatever casino I was lost in must have sent the guards after me from watching me fall 9 times in the security video feed
Fuelfire: Anyway, Saturday was much more under control and a lot more fun.
Fuelfire: I met some very cool women, but they all lived in far away lands.
POWER: far away is good
Fuelfire: Left Rum Jungle at close, spent much of the morning getting to know a hot little super-wealthy number from Mexico City, and then I walked home at 7:15
POWER: in the morn?
Fuelfire: yup
POWER: when did you get back?
Fuelfire: got home at 7:45, because a black transvestite "call girl" wanted to converse with me for awhile outside of NY NY
Fuelfire: It was great, she more or less offered me a freebie
Fuelfire: I declined
Fuelfire: I told her she should have caught me the night before…

Seven Signs of ELOI
Mood:  party time!
Now Playing: Run DMC's Greatest Hits
Recently, it was that time of year again. Time for the Scottsdale Boys & Girls Club Uncorked & Unplugged fundraiser. A classic ‘all-you-can-graze-upon-from-local-high-brow-restaurants-and-all-the-booze-you-can-glug-down-all-night-while-listening-to-tunes-under-the-night-sky’ fundraising event. My kind of fundraiser. Basically, time for an evening filled with friends, wine, new friends, fun, food, foozeball, more new friends, beer, cigars, shots, even more new friends, Ms. Packman, and all around general debauchery…but I digress.

I once again managed to score free sponsor passes to the event. Nothing says VIP like sponsor passes. BOO YA! Last year I had 10 tickets and we went to town! Unfortunately, this year only four. (Again, I apologize to those peeps who are still bitter they didn’t get to attend this year). I gathered a minor posse and we tripped off to indulge in food, booze and eye candy. And not necessarily in that order.

So this thing’s a total fest. Sweet would be an understatement. We are wandering around getting endless refills of everything alcoholic whilst smoking Drew Estates cigars and noshing on gourmet victuals, stuffing our goodie bags full of free cigars, wine glasses, and other assorted spifs. The only thing missing from the rather Hollywood party atmosphere that abounded was some G-13...although I could be wrong.

After 3 hours of playing and playing hard, we were primed for the private VIP after hours party. We were perhaps too primed. It became rather apparent that we had hit ELOI (pronounced E-loy and no, not the odd city in Arizona before Picacho Peak) as in Excessive Levels Of Intoxication. How do you know you’ve reached ELOI?

Seven Signs of ELOI

1. SALES MANAGER
You begin pitching drinks you love to other attendees, who you have never previously met and will never see again, in front of the booth you tried it at. “Oh My God! You have to try this coffee flavored tequila! It is to DIE for!! Smell this. Doesn’t it SO smell like coffee? You’ll SO love it—trust me! Here! (shove a shot in his/her hand) Just try it!”

2. INSTABONDING
You notice other random girls standing around the perimeter of your group actually have the same plain silver toe ring on the second toe of their left foot as you all do. You gather them together and get everyone to put her left foot ‘in’ while encouraging them all to shout along with you “Wonder toe powers activate, form of a _________” (fill in the blank) while giggling hysterically. Various boy friends are forced to separate you but not before exchanging phone numbers, hugs, and taking copious cell phone photos.

3. EVERYTHING IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AMAZING
You wonder why the oh so talented Zowie Bowie and his fabulous 80s cover band haven’t made a larger splash in the music community.

4. OVERENTHUSIASTIC FAN
Speaking of the music community, you run into (literally) the Neil Diamond impersonator from Casino Arizona. You proceed to squeal “I LOVE Forever in Blue Jeans” and grab him in what could best be described as an intently loving headlock. You proceed to start swaying back and forth with him basically locked under your arm singing loudly and off key “Money talks, but it can’t sing and dance and it don’t talk. As long as I can have you here with meeeeeeeeeee, I’d much rather beeeeeeeeeeeeeeee forever in blue jeans…” To which ‘Neil’ replies “Errr, I don’t do that one.”

5. GIRLS GONE WILD
You and your friends proceed to start doing video girl style ‘ho-bucket’ pose downs against a wall to a bemused audience while instructing some random MBA student (he must have mentioned that at least 5 times “I’m getting my MBA” Nifty, just shut up and snap those pictures dude!) to take pictures.

6. UNSPORTSMAN LIKE CONDUCT
You challenge some super hot metrosexual guy to a game of Ms Pacman as he had the poor luck (or utter stupidity I’m betting on) to mutter a comment behind you (while playing a video game) that “girls suck at video games—they just don’t have the hand-eye coordination.” To which, you respond by whipping around and snarling “Come on you little bitch, I’ll wipe the floor with you.” And then proceed to, howling and slapping high fives with everyone around you just to really rub it in. After completely creaming his well dressed ass (it was Ms Pacman folks), you plant a huge wet kiss on him (gotta give him some consolation prize) and then while walking away, shout back over your shoulder “LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSER” at the top of your lungs!!!

7. I’M HILARIOUS
You suddenly develop a rather convincing British accent and begin speaking to everyone in it. Over utilizing “Thanks love”, “bugger”, “Bloody ‘ell”, “Is this the cue?” “Do you have a spare fag?” “This is fucking brilliant!”, etc. in every sentence you speak until a friend says “Enough. Listen missy, your work visa is expired. Get your ass back from the UK before you walk home.” And just like that, you are a US citizen once again.

Needless to say, the seven signs spelled the end of the evening for us. As we ‘walked’ out (We were hanging onto each other so much, we looked like a rugby team with a game in play as we went through the velvet ropes), we were cool enough to grab a foursome and bless them with our VIP passes for the private after hours party before piling into the town car and having Jimmy drive our drunken asses home while we sang show tunes at the top of our lungs. (Yes, we did add on extra tip monies for his happy tolerance).

We departed just in time to save the other VIPs from the trainwreck that was us I’m sure.