Random Thoughts
Mood:  chillin'
Now Playing: Badge - Cream
•Food TV’s Sandra Lee is a freak and needs to be destroyed.

•It would be cool if everyone dressed like superheroes do. But having said that, I think that for some people, it should be illegal to wear spandex.

•I hate when a guy is no longer as fascinating as he once appeared.

•Polka music sucks ass…whether it is Polish, Mid-Western or Mexican. It is only entertaining when you and your friends are drunk in a Minneapolis beer garden.

•While door slamming isn’t a mature act, it can sometimes be beyond satisfying.

Thanks Tons
Mood:  incredulous
Now Playing: Herb Alpert & the Tijuana Brass
So I talk to my mom and thank her again for her and dad giving me a roaring case of the creeping crud (AKA flu from Hell) over Christmas. How I still feel like ass and I have to go to D.C. next week.

She replies “Well Meg, everyone has it. You would have gotten it somewhere from someone eventually. Isn’t better to get it from your own parents then from a random stranger in line at Walgreeen’s?”

And she’s serious....

Still Recovering AKA I Almost Don't Feel Like Ass
Mood:  hug me
Now Playing: Sex Pistols
Here it is a week later and I almost don’t feel like total ass! UGH! This shit sucks! It’s like the Incredible Creeping Crud or the Creeping Crud That Would Not Die! I swear!

Part of the problem is that I never get sick at least sick like cold and flu stuff. I am more your basic small time industrial accident girl. I break my arm, sprain my ankle, dislocate my shoulders (Yes, both…at the same time) get black eyes, knock out my teeth, etc. I just don’t do run of the mill injuries and illnesses like Influenza Type B.

I am prepared for war—Motrin 800, frozen peas (ice packs), iodine, hospital formula benzocaine spray, Silver Sulfadiazine cream (SSD), knee braces, pain killers, liquid skin AKA Super Glue, Ace bandages for days, Epsom salts, splints....you name it. The Meg-O-Rama urban triage kit....

Seriously. Everyone who knows me jokes that if it can cut me or burn me, it will. No matter how careful I am, I am seriously accident prone. It is unbelievable at times. I am a total disaster zone. If I can run into it, I will. If I can trip over it, I will….at least once. If I can stab myself with it, I will. I might even hack off the top of my thumb. I am a magnet for injury and I have the scars to prove it.

I’ve always been this way. Apparently, unlike most kids, I just never grew out of it my ‘Danger Prone Daphne’-ness.

I was the kid who was constantly falling out of trees, cutting my arm open on rebar, having skateboard accidents, getting beaten up by my older sister, falling off my bike, etc. I was always covered in an array of rather spectacular bruises and scabs.

Kids wore them as badges of honor back then. Big, gnarly, slimey, mutant scabs that evolved and dissolved on a regular basis as we spent far too much time in the pool—blech! But I digress…

Anywho, I was injured so often that our family doctor actually asked to talk to me alone to make sure our stories were consistent. Sweet! I only wish I had been old enough to play that one! Could have been funny. “My sister attacked me with a rabid hedgehog.”

So my long winded point? (Do I ever have any other kind?) Give me a sprained ankle, knock out my teeth, anything! Just no flu. Please! I can stand pain—tattoos, broken bones, papercuts, etc. What I cannot stand is being a whiney, snot infested victim of my own useless self!

All I can say is this crap had better clear up before I head to D.C. or I will whip out my buddy Jack Daniels and continue to furiously hot toddy this thing into submission!

My Dating Rules for the New Year
Mood:  cheeky
Now Playing: Tori Amos
1. I am going to stop looking for Mr. Right and spend more time enjoying Mr. Right Now more fully. Besides, if you look at the odds, I have a far better chance of finding multiple Mr. Right Nows than I do of finding one Mr. Right.

2. If I am bored and hungry, I will go out on a date. The best outcome is that I will kill two birds with one stone. The worst case scenario is that I still won’t need to figure out how my new hi-tech microwave works.

3. I am going to kiss everyone (this is not exactly a new rule)…except stalkers as this just further encourages them or narcissistic guys as they tend not to notice you are even kissing them or stinky guys unless it is the post manly workout sweaty stink which is acceptable or total toads as ugly cannot be overcome with copious amounts of liquor no matter what anyone claims or losers as again there is just not enough liquor to overcome the big “L” or self-aggrandizing guys which really requires no explanation.

4. I will improve the quality of the quantity of guys I date as I seem to be wasting a lot of perfectly good lip gloss.

5. I will strive to date guys who share the same first name as this just cuts down on identity confusion when dating multiple guys. Failing this, I plan on referring to them all by the endearing term ‘sugar britches’ to garner the same result….

6. I will no longer date guys who have been married more than twice because you have to know buddy, after the third divorce, it's you!

7. I pledge to do my very best not to re-date any of my ex boyfriends a fourth time no matter how much they beg and plead.

8. I will loosen my standards for my ideal guy which, according to my friends, are too strenuous. I therefore will now just require that he be relatively hair free, funny, cute to me, employed and have decently maintained feet. Did I say funny?

9. I will enjoy every date to its fullest, unless the guy’s a creep, in which case I reserve the right to plan a red herring emergency cell call to end the date early. “My neighbor’s iguana was just hit by a car—she needs moral support—gotta’ go.”

10. I will not date men who have pet names for their willies. Any man who refers to his maleness as the Super Sonic Master Blaster, Mr. Lovejoy’s Pleasure Stick, Ace, Mr. Bo & the Jangles, etc. is out. In the infamous words of a member of O.J.’s defense team, if the junk has a name, I don’t play the game (it was something like that).

Am I too Drunk to Drive? AKA Call a Cab Dillhole
Mood:  party time!
Now Playing: Janis Joplin
I pretty much encourage everyone to drink and drink often and as New Year’s Eve is tonight and I still feel like ass, I thought I would share with you some signs that you may be too ‘abbreviated’ to drive.

As New Year’s Eve is rank amateur hour, don’t be a fool and drink and drive. No one wants to start the New Year in the can with a bunch of syphilis infected hookers and vomiting college kids (sometimes the same thing). It just doesn’t bode well for a stellar ’06 now does it?

Here are some signs that you are too drunk to drive. Call a cab dillhole!

•Talking way louder than normal. Stray dogs in the Philippines heard you tell your story about sneaking into the Pernod Rock Festival in ’89. Your own jokes make you laugh like a psychotic hyena. Call a cab dillhole!

•Slurring like a fucking retard. Drinking stuff you wouldn't normally touch like gin, or say Puro, because it’s there. Obese and slovenly members of the opposite sex are starting to look reeeaaally good to you. Call a cab dillhole!

•You are calling all females in your line of sight sluts and whores (regardless of your sex). Call a cab dillhole!

•Standing, walking, and breathing require intense concentration and/or help from a wingman/winggal. Call a cab dillhole!

•Nothing you say makes any sense as you are speaking fluent ‘drunkenese'. Call a cab dillhole!

•Telling all of the random strangers in the room how very, very much you love them. Call a cab dillhole!

•Vomiting, heroic or otherwise. Call a cab dillhole!

•Whoa tiger! Total loss of control as you attempt to mount a harmless houseplant. Call a cab dillhole!

•Wetting/shitting your pants is in the offing (pun intended). Call a cab dillhole!

•If you are a guy, you are dirty dancing with a teenage transgender Latino ‘girl’; if you are a gal, you are dirty dancing as the filling sandwiched between two white trash cheeseballs with pencil mustaches and NBA jerseys. You do not want to have to introduce yourself to any of these folks in the morning when you are wondering where the Hell you are. Call a cab dillhole!

•Dancing a la Paris Skank Hilton on any surface that was not originally intended for dancing (e.g., table top, toilet seat, bar stool, Greek billionaire’s face, etc. Call a cab dillhole!

The key to remember? If your friends really loved you, they would already have taken your drunk ass home and put you to bed on your stomach, not your back, to prevent you from choking on your own vomit and dying like Hendrix and a few other drunken 60's music idols.

Great way to start the New Year Skippy….

Tis the Season to Feel Like Ass!
Mood:  spacey
Now Playing: Basia
As I post this from lung cookie central, I fear I may be dying. In fact, I don’t fear it, I wish for it with every aching fiber of my flu-infested being! So someone get your ass over here and put me out of my misery!

When my sis and I arrived at the ‘rents’ pad for Christmas frivolities, mom and pops were hardcore sick--hacking, dripping, sounding like Brenda Vaccaro after a carton of smokes, etc. You know. Sick as fricking dogs! My sister turned, looked at me and said “We’re so fucked!” and as usual, she was right.

I felt fine all through the Christmas. Woke up Monday with a bit of a narfy chest deal but put that off to a late night ‘dog walk’ of ‘stinkerbell’ (Belle), my sister’s lab puppy.

By Tuesday, I knew the high hard one of illness was coming to smack me upside the head and all I could do was try to prepare for the onslaught. It must be how those poor bastards in trailer parks feel after hearing a twister warning. There’s nothing to do but hunker down with provisions and ride it out.

So I hit the market, the drug store and the video store in rapid succession for necessities before I lost strength and succumbed to the creeping crud. Airborne, Emer’gen-C (I’m telling you that stuff is a multipurpose champion!), Alka Seltzer cold & flu, gallons of Gatorade, gallons of juice, and movies. I start taking the Airborne and Emer’gen-C immediately. Take a hot tub. Hoping to sweat it out and, unrealistically, avoid the ick.

Well, that didn’t work.

Wednesday. Day from Hell. Ground Zero. Flu hits hardcore. Head feels like 50lb toddler is playing dodge ball with it. Sinuses have apparently been packed with rusty steel wool. I am shivering and freezing even though I am ensconced in fleece footie jammies, encrusted in Vick’s vapor rub, holed up under the covers. Coughing, which I am doing a shitload of, hurts. Moving hurts. Opening my eyes hurts. Hearing hurts. Being me hurts. If is official. I feel like ass. I am down for the count.

A hot tub would have been nice. Too bad that I hadn’t the strength to get in one but a bonus, in some small way, as I probably would not have had the strength to get back out. Seriously. I would have ended up as Meg-O-stew after parboiling for 14 hours or so before somebody found me…. or the dogs and cats ate me…. or something else a la Stephen King (which is actually what went through my fevered and delirious mind as I pondered a hot tub). Hey, I’ve heard it happens….pets eating you and all, not the parboiling in a hot tub bit.

I opt for sleep. Lots of it.

Thursday. I am barely existing in my misery. Ever growing heaps of snot rags litter my house. The piles on the nightstand and coffee table are especially impressive. Must think about getting a trash can when it doesn’t hurt to think. I am single handedly adding to the deforestation of Costa Rica by the snot infested fistful.

Can my misery be any more complete? Why yes, it surely can!

Thursday afternoon. I was still at flu threat level red. I heard some strange high pitched whining noise like a small animal being tortured. As I strain to figure out where it’s coming from, I realize it’s the sound of my own breath, rasping in and out of my chest that I hear. My ears are ringing. My joints hurt. I go into a coughing fit. I am coughing and heaving like no body’s biz. And can I tell you about the pain? Oy! It felt like my chest was on fire and I thought for a minute, I was going to pass out—it hurt that bad. You know, where your chest is all congested and you start that dry wracking cough and can’t stop? It just burns like nobody’s business.

So here I am, coughing my fool head off, when my house was suddenly infested with barking spiders (AKA fart attack: instead of blaming it on the dog, our family blames it on barking spider infestations) and next thing you know, and there’s no way to put this delicately, I suddenly felt something oddly warm and wet. Huh?! WTF? Well, I’d done soiled myself. Yup. Coughed so hard, I pooped my pants. Interesting that I was unaware I had the trots until that moment. Moderate leakage, but still unauthorized--an oop-poop so to speak (REMEMBER: NEVER trust a fart and PULEEZE, like it’s never happened to you—it’s mortifying, but funny)

So I freaked out! Classic understatement--I completely wigged out!!! I stumbled into the bathroom, still coughing, dragged my aching self over to the toilet and whipped down my sweats to check out the collateral damage, when I cough. I cough hard. I cough so unbelievable hard that my gag reflex kicks in and I hurl. That’s right. I roark up a roiling mass of Gatorade and God knows how many sundry cough and cold products and proceed to puke between my legs, right into the soiled sweatpants that were bunched down around my ankles as I sat on the toilet.

Yeah. Good times I tell you. Not. I have a much higher level of appreciation now for the party stunts my body is capable of performing. This one took the cake! I was a wretched beast to say the least!

Needless to say, the sweats were bagged up and dumped (pun intended) into the trash receptacle as there was no way I was going to try to recover them at that point--futile and disgusting thought there.

I wearily forced myself into a hot shower and managed to cleanse. I rolled into fresh jammies and poured my still horrified self bonelessly back into bed before I passed out for another 12 hours of sleep.

Friday. I faced the day knowing there was no way it could be as bad as yesterday. I mean, there’s no way anything can match shitting and puking your drawers almost simultaneously (I think I’ll call it the ‘up dump’ for the upchuck dump). Nice. Having said that, I then commenced to stress out wondering if I had just jinxed myself to another day of feeling like ass and the possibility of a repeat performance of the ‘up-dump’.

I feel better. I must have as I attempted to eat a bowl of cereal puffs. Bad idea. Ever tried to eat cereal when you can’t breathe through your nose? Yeah. ‘Zactly. Surprised I didn’t die although there were some rather close calls….I am down to a flannel nightshirt and red furry house scuffs. My nose resembles said furry house scuffs being a rather violent shade of red at this point. Head is still pounding at a level on par with a minor construction site noise sans the heavy duty jackhammer.

It boded well. I attempted a minor sojourn out for errands. Bad idea. Major, major space monkey driving behavior commenced. You know you get in the car, you arrive at your destination and have no idea how you got there AKA Autopilot. Not good. At my first stop, I start feeling all sweaty and faint. Time to head home.

At this rate, my New Years plans are completely verklempt. There is no way in Hell without substantial improvement that I will be doing ANYTHING for New Years Eve except feeling like ass!

Have one or twelve for me….I'm not going anywhere fast....

Random Christmas Memories....
Mood:  happy
Now Playing: Best of Johnny Cash
Ah Christmas! It’s the most wonderful time of the year…yeah it is! I spent the Christmas holiday with the famn damily. We had a perfectly lovely time. For reals. Surprisingly. I know. We ate, we opened, we laughed, we played Oh Hell, my sister and I walked her Lab puppy, ‘Stinkerbell’ (AKA euphemism for sneaking off for a smoke) and we spoke of Christmases past.

Here are some of the holiday ‘gems’ that we remembered and reminisced about. Enjoy. I hope your Christmas (or other assorted Yule holiday or lack thereof) was bright…and full of good and shiny things.

Quality Control
When my sister was 8 or so the ‘rents got her the much-desired new bike with the highly coveted, uber cool banana seat. Oh yeah. Slick baby!

So it’s Christmas Eve and Pop was putting her bike together after he and mom had finished sucking back a few bottles of champagne.

On Christmas morning, mom noticed a box full of ‘leftover’ bike parts and my sister wasn’t allowed to ride it until Pop got it fixed. “She is NOT riding that bike Robert!”

We Like the Night Life Baby….
All of the kids in the neighborhood loved the Thompson’s Christmas party. It spelled a free for all for a bunch of long haired and semi-pimply adolescents.

Our parents were so fully tanked, laughing and smoking while we were running around perving forgotten glasses of booze left on the buffet table, in the bathroom, on the back porch, etc. surreptitiously combining them into one big drink and chugging it before a parent caught you. Sometimes you lucked out on the combination and sometimes, not so good. AKA The liquor version of a ‘suicide’.

It was also convenient for those kids who dabbled in cigarettes. My sister and the older kids could snake smokes from unattended purses and sports coats and no one caught on as the whole house was filled with smoke anyway (in a long ago time, AKA the 70’s, most everyone smoked and smoked everywhere—secondhand smoke not such a biggie and who worried about their kids smoking by association anyway?)

In a random way, I think it prepared me for college. Similar parties and all….

Dead Guy Clothes
My grandpa, Jamie, was the go-to guy in his retirement community in Scottsdale.

The widow Nelson needed her gutters cleaned? Gramps would whip out the ladder and get it done. Did the tangelo tree at the McGrath’s need a culling? Gramps was there. Saul dies in his sleep and you clean out the closets for the widow and keep his old clothes to wear for grubbies. Only problem with this thrifty Scottish, as we are, plan? Gramps was over 6’ tall and these clothes were all for much shorter gents. So the family referred to these too short cast offs as ‘dead guy clothes’. As in, any time we saw Gramps wearing them, we’d be all shades of “Gramps is sporting dead guy clothes today”. Needless to say, long running family joke.

It’s Christmas 1980 something. Calvin Klein, as modeled by the ever ethereal and hot in a rather disturbing jailbait kind of way, Brooke Shields. You remember: “Nothing comes between me and my Calvins”.

So mom buys Gramps a pair of Calvin Klein jeans so that he can wear them to grub in rather than the dead guy clothes.

Gramps uses his pocket knife to carefully cut the tape away from the wrapping paper, then folds it and saves it to one side fully intending to wrap next year’s gifts in it (and did by the by).

He opens the box and pulls out the new jeans and my Pop says “Oh my God! Calvin Klein died.” At which, we all burst out laughing hysterically.

Gramps carefully folded the Calvins back into their box. We never saw them again.

The Tale of The Hell Bell
Ah the joys of yute! It’s Christmas. I’m five. We’re trimming the tree. It is my year to get on pop’s shoulders and put the angel on top—boo yeah!

It’s all fun, games and Burl Ives on the stereo until I spot the bell. I remember it well. It was beyond cool. Metallic green, glitter…garish. Have you ever noticed how kids that age are attracted to garish like moths to a porch light? So I tell dad that I want to put the bell on top of the tree.

Pop, ever patient, explains to me that we’re going to put the angel on top. I reply “I want the bell.” Pop explains that it’s my turn and I get to put the angel on the tree. To which, I respond with little fists planted on my waist, “I want the bell!” So Pops got down on his knees and explained the importance of the angel and the symbolism between her and the tree top. I folded my angry little arms across my angry little body and looked Pop straight in the eye and said “Hell!” Ooops!

Next thing I know, I am airborne. Flying down the hall with the greatest of ease as my Pop had grabbed me by the arm and dragged me down to the bathroom.

Wooshe….grind, grind, grind. That was the sound the bar of soap (think LAVA brand here folks) made as it made its way over the lips and ground down the length of my teeth towards my non-existent tonsils as I sat on the toilet seat and considered the extreme, extreme, error of my ways.

Ugh! Double ugh! Giant sobs through the bar of soap. Tough to do—lots of spit. Tears coursing down my little face.

Mom came back, eventually, and removed the bar of soap from my very repentant little potty mouth and says “Oh honey, you should never have said that.”

I blinked back some tears and went to respond to her and blew a ginormous soap bubble instead….

What makes this story is that every year at Christmas, whoever unpacks the bell says “Oh look Meg, it’s the Hell bell” and everyone laughs their asses off at my expense….as usual….

Gotta’ love the holidays!

Deck the Halls Until They are Slick with Blood....From the TShirtHell.com X-mas Jingle Bell Thingy
Mood:  cheeky
Now Playing: Insane Clown Posse
Once again, I have to say how fricking much I enjoy the offerings (burnt and otherwise) from TShirtHell.com!

The t-shirts and other assorted goodies are fuck all funny. Beyond un-PC....in a very good way. If you are easily offended, don't bother going to their site to check it out. Then again, if you are easily offended, you shouldn't be reading my blog either as much like In Living Color--nothing's sacred!

Sometimes their monthly news letter is just that and other times it is screamingly hilarious. This month is pretty hilarious (at least to me) and so I am posting it for your happy daily consumption of un-PC fodder.

Now, go check out the site at:
www.TShirtHell.com and keep the dream of pissing off everyone alive by buying two....or ten shirts. I especially enjoy the Beyond Hell section of the site....but then again, I would!

Deck the Halls Until They are Slick with Blood
By Aaron Landau Schwarz, owner of TShirtHell

I saw on TV last night some good news for a change: America is winning, "The War on Christmas". I, for one, am glad to hear it because frankly I feel we needed the victory. The War on Drugs was a bust (no pun intended), and the War on Terror is still too close to call. But I think the War on Christmas is really a slam dunk.

Why a War on Christmas? Well, there have been uncorroborated reports of sleigh bells ringing, and possible evidence of reindeer droppings (some say pigeon) at the World Trade Center right before the first plane hit. So, for me, that's plenty of proof to tie Santa Claus to September 11th.

Not to mention the coded messages sent out to Santa's operatives around the world in songs like, "White Christmas". Long thought to be just a harmless call for ethnic cleansing, the real significance lies is in the verse, "May your days be merry and bright". This is Santa's plan for world domination. His call for a World both Merry and Bright, (or WMB as he likes to call it) makes the idea of Global Communism about as threatening as a pillow fight in a nursing home. Santa's already created one at his workshop at the North Pole, as well as at his Elf Training Camp. We must go there and find, and destroy these WMBs.

I think sending our special forces down to the North Pole will be a really nice break from Afghanistan. After a day of torturing... whoops, I mean talking to elves; our troops can enjoy a nice cup of hot cocoa. And there's no whore, like an elfin whore. Even the ones that are pushing 245 still look 197: and if you slick their hair back, 96. Santa's not hiding in a cave. He's in a well marked building. The place has a sign made out of gumdrops on a thirty foot candy cane. It will not be hard to find.

I figure we'll have this war won by February and those little elves will be holding free elections by March. Our troops will be home by April. Just in time to start The War on Easter. So lay those chocolate eggs while you still can Easter Bunny.

You're next.

All I Want for Christmas....
Mood:  silly
Now Playing: Best of Johnny Cash
I have tried really hard this year to be nice and not naughty. These efforts have failed rather miserably as I am naughty by nature (and why did that have to be a rap band with street cred’s name and therefore ruin my line? Hey! ho! Down with the O.P.P….)

The good news is that I am naughty in a fun/enjoyable bratty kind of way not a seriously wicked or evil way. To be quite honest, I just don’t have enough short term memory left after college to handle the machinations of true evil. WAY too much stuff to try to remember and I still can’t figure out where I hid some of the Christmas presents I bought earlier this year. You would think that would be hard to do in a 1600 sq. ft. house….but I digress.

So all that being said, I think I deserve some special goodies from Santa Babe this year. Here’s my short list of random wants as I really can’t concentrate any more to try to compile something longer.

What I want for Christmas this year

• Super powers
• Black American Express card (if you have to ask, never mind)
• An evening without dog farts
• 60 inch flat screen tv….in every room of the house including the bathrooms and my walk in closet
• My two front teeth—no really, I’ve knocked them out twice and the bonding is coming off
• A bouncing, hydraulic, ‘vato’ gangster car complete with a chain steering wheel (the better to get my handcuffs around), a switchblade gear shift and a super cool flame paint job (I would look soooooooo cool as gangsta’ Meg!)
• Stretch Armstrong and a scalpel (I told you I was naughty)
• Life size Easter Island Tiki God thing or two (more impressive that way I think)
• Medium-size catapult with a supply of things to fling—preferably melons and gourds
• Suit of chain mail
• WD-40 (for the chain mail of course—DUH!)
• The Clapper (You know-clap on! Clap off! The clapper! NOT the other kind)
• A cabana boy complete with optional knee pads
• Trampoline shoes (seriously)
• Life sized robot (Danger Meg Robinson—return to the ship!)
• Hot pink footie jammies (the zip up one piece ones)
• An empty can with a string attached to it that I can carry around and pretend is my cell phone
• Tequila bandito bandolier (the shot glass shoulder holder thingy (technical term) that shot broads wear in bars)
• Vegas show girl headdress to wear to the grocery store-must be ginormous and horribly garish (are there any that aren’t?)
• Monica Lewinsky bobble head doll (isn’t that an oxymoron?)
• Potato gun (AKA spud mother)
• Finger puppets (an assortment of characters is fine)
• Leather Twister game mat (none of your beeswax!)
• A Peacock

Whew! I think that about covers it. Any combination of the above would make for a super cool Meg-O-Rama Christmas! Certain combinations could make for a unbelievably fricking stellar Meg-O-Rama Christmas!

Here’s wishing you and yours a Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Blissful Kwanzaa, Exultant Solstice, Joyous Yule, etc. If I overlooked your religious beliefs, or the lack thereof, I apologize. Yeah, not really. I am beyond sick of all of this PC shit with holidays.

If you run into me on the street, I will wish you a Merry Christmas, against your will if necessary, because I’m Methodist and that’s what we do….

Just add liquor.....
Mood:  party time!
Now Playing: New Order
So Friday night I was in DC Ranch (AKA BFE) for an evening out with a dear friend from college who I adore, Inga. Now, Inga is a darling Scandanavian gal who doesn’t get out all that much as she is married and is a stay at home mom with 3 kids: a 3 year old and one year old twins. Yeah—she’s a pretty busy broad on a daily basis to say the least. So it’s a rather big treat for Inga to get out of the house for a girl’s evening out.

When we met up at the bar we were ‘starting’ at, she was all shades of excited as she could actually stay out until 11pm! “Can you believe it?!” she squealed in happiness, “11pm!” I’m psyched as we will have a longer evening to hang out and gab.

So we plopped ourselves down, chattering incessantly the whole time. Our waitress came up and informed us that their monster Kettle One martinis (yum!) are half price for the next hour so we decided to order martinis. We ended up with appletinis…and I know better! You NEVER drink a smooth, quality liquor like Kettle One with fruity and sweet stuff added. It becomes a ‘stealth drink’ as the fruity covers the almost non-existent taste of the premium liquor and the sugar enhances the effect. Bad, bad combination.

I am yakking, telling her a story when she interrupts me to tell me I need to “hurry up” and she wants to order two more. What? I haven’t been flapping my lips that long have I? Quelle horror! I surreptitiously check my watch, only to find it’s been about 5 minutes. EEEK!!!! So she orders another one and continues to steadily drink. After about our 3rd martini, in less than an hour mind you, I tell her that we need to slow down. Just because the drinks are half off, doesn’t mean we need to schlog through them at a rate similar to a frat boy on nickel beer night. We also need to order some food to try to gum down the booze’s effect. An order of asiago dip and two more martinis later, sweet Inga is talking about ordering a 5th one! OMG! Now, I drink on a semi regular basis (one would have to with my job) and I have even been known to quaff back a stellar amount at times on par with a redneck spending the day tubing down the Salt River. The difference between me and the tiny blond Inga? I can hold my liquor—I’ve had shloads more practice in the recent past you see.

Pretty soon, Inga has decided that I need to hook up so she can live vicariously through me. Oh boy…

I come back from the bathroom. As I walk back to the table, I notice Inga has developed ‘glassy eyes’. Oy! Never a good sign. As I sit down, she says, “Hey, that guy’s pretty cute.” I’m like “What cute guy? I don’t see one.” She says “The one up at the bar eating the salad.” I replied “You mean the one that looks like Frank Sinatra?” And she says “Yeah”. To which I responded “Too bad he looks like Frank Sinatra….at 60! EWWWWW!” To be totally fair, I have to say though, the place had serious mood lighting. I kept grabbing the candle off our table and holding under my chin and saying “I am so scared!” in my best Blair Witch impression.

So then she’s all “Hey that guy’s cute. You should go for it.” I looked up and was all oh no! I like shaved heads, but that was about all this dude had going on for him even in the darkest of mood lighting! I look up to see this narfy looking guy ensconced in a pair of way too tight Wranglers (think male camel toe), a cotton Fair Island sweater and a pair of black, hi-top Reeboks tennis shoes. UGH! Can you say late/early for days?! This guy was stuck in a truly hideous 80’s fashion time warp!

Unfortunately, there’s no stopping Inga and she says “Sit down! Join us!” Ok, anyone can tell she is slam-dammered if not totally slam dunked as she has just asked him to basically sit down on our purses which is basically what I said to him with a smile. This guy acts like a total ass and is like “Yeah, I’m not sitting with you.” WHAT? What kind of asshole a) doesn’t want to sit with 2 cute girls and b) responds like a total dillhole to a clearly intoxicated and polite little blond? LOSER!

Soon, we find out the reason why he was such a total cheese ass. Captain fashion disaster is meeting a horsey looking farm broad. More power to him. More his style than us anyway. They decide to sit down behind us. Directly behind us. After they sit he starts telling her some wildly ‘enhanced’ version of what happened. How we were "totally hitting on him" and "that girl grabbed my ass" (As if! Besides, wouldn't I have gotten his narfy camel toe instead if I tried that?) I start chuckling and shaking my head in amusement whereas Inga starts getting indignant. I tell her to look at his shoes—PUHLEEZE! 'Nuff said! So she, very obviously in her stellar liquor haze, flips around to look at his shoes and lets loose with peals of laughter. FD gets all shades of pissy and says “Is there a problem? I saw you looking at my shoes.” Before I can censor myself, I snap back “Yeah, they’re lame just like you.” EEEEK! I can’t believe I just did that! I am usually beyond non-confrontational unless physically accosted, but I was seriously irritated that he would be that much of a shitbag to Inga and then lie about it to his hag chick. Apparently, my staring him down with major stink eye did the trick as FD sputtered for a minute and then left us the Hell alone.

Inga then spots a hotty blond and his entourage/posse enter. “Oh, he’s hot! You should definitely go for him!” To which I again started laughing and say “Yeah that would be Scotty McAlister, the Channel 24 weather guy. (NOTE: The broadcaster's name, appearance, job title, channel, etc. have all been changed to protect the innocent or the not so innocent....in this case, me.)He’s VERY married and has several darling kids that he dotes on.” As in beyond off limits in my book and with good reason.

She goes to order another ‘martooni’ and I frantically motion to our waitress with a slashing “cut off’ motion which sweet Inga notices. I managed to turn it into a casual hair flip. She’s tanked and having a blast. I do not want to rain on that parade, but I also know when to it’s a good idea to open an umbrella prior to a serious soaking.

The scarier part? It’s only 6:30pm. So much for that highly anticipated 11pm curfew. There is no way the tiny cuteness is going to make it that long. Her bright and hotly burning night out star has crashed and burned to earth like a fabulous, yet short lived, meteor.

I encourage her to head home. She didn’t want me to drive her, follow her or call her a cab. I was worried, but she assured me she was ok for the 10 minute toodle home and sometimes you can only push it so much. So after many hugs and a virtual “you’re the best!” love fest in the parking lot, we part ways. Inga to head home and me to head off for a ‘pick up’ date who I had contacted when I realized the evening was going to be rather short lived.

I’m proud of Inga for her all out, no prisoners willingness to tie one on….and hard. Willingness is half the battle or so says G.I. Joe. Next time, I just think she needs to treat it like a training for a marathon. Start small at first and work yourself up to the entire demanding distance. It’s all about endurance babe!

Hopefully, in two weeks when we go out again, we’ll start slowly and pace ourselves…I am SO looking forward to our next attempt!

No More Walt.....
Mood:  mischievious
Now Playing: Squeeze
So it is with great sadness in my heart that I have to inform you that I will no longer be sharing updates on the ‘Walt’ situation with you.

One of my rules is that the blog is not for consumption by those I might be or already am romantically/sexually/passionately/adoringly/mashingly (or a variation of none, one or several of these) involved with. While the things I talk about are nothing I wouldn’t tell them to their faces, it’s just not cool to do so on the Internet if they know about the blog and read it. And you know they don’t call me cool chick for nothing as I am all about being cool.....

See, ‘Walt’ knows about the blog. That usually wouldn’t happen as I never tell guys I go out with about it, but I met ‘Walt’ through unusual channels, so to speak, and he has read it.

In fact, only four of my exes know about the blog and have the address—three of these are from college and I remain good friends with them so I really don’t care that they read it as there’s nothing that would shock them anyway. At the most, they might just shake their heads and think “Oh, Meg!” The fourth is Matty and, if he still reads this, I can pretty much guarantee you that he doesn’t give a rat’s ass about anything I have to say about him. I don’t think there is anything I could dish out that he couldn’t handle.

At one point after we broke up the first time, he started dating a rather well-endowed (store bought) chick. He called up one night rather upset, and understandably so, as he had just found out that this broad, ‘Almond’ had been convicted of writing bad checks. Something he had been blissfully unaware of previously. Oops!

After he told me, I couldn’t help myself. I start giggling uncontrollably as that cheesy 70’s song “When You’re in Love with a Beautiful Woman” came to mind…but with vastly different words of course. So I started singing to him “When you’re in love with a big breasted felon, it hurts…” Yeah. So you see, nothing I could possibly say at this point could compare to that.

So anywho, I’ll have to take a pass on the hilarious ‘Walt’ update…use your imagination. It probably won’t be as good as the real story of torrid text messaging and utterly inane behavior but we’ll never know now will we?

Besides, in the dating game of Texas Hold'em, it's kind of stupid to show your hand on the Internet....

Speaking of Freakshow....
Mood:  cheeky
Now Playing: Sigue Sigue Sputnik
My neighbors are total freaks and it’s my own damn fault!

When I filed for divorce, I moved out to the first available place I could find which was barely habitable but they really could have cared less that I had three dogs…and three cats…and five ginormous goldfish that masquerade as low rent Koi…and a horse. At that time, I boarded Big so he wasn’t an issue, but still.

Needless to say, I have moved 4 times in 3 years. Yes, I am a masochist. I left the hovel and moved into a super nice brand spanking new house. Unfortunately, that house was in an HOA and between the curb Nazis and the fact that neighbors in 5 houses could hear my phone conversations whenever I sat in the backyard, the big ass walk in closets and the gas fireplace just couldn’t make it tolerable enough. I then moved a block down the street (please note, whoever said short moves are easier LIED!) to a super cool pad with 2 acres where I could have Big on site and a totally bitching upstairs patio with amazing city views that saw a lot of activity…of all kinds. As you know, it’s not a party until folks are urinating off the roof…

That would have worked except the owners, who had moved to San Diego and said they weren’t coming back for 2 years, decided they hated living in San Diego (go figure) and moved back after a year. So I had 3 weeks to find a new pad for me and all the furries including a horse. The pad I ended up moving to just happened to be a few blocks away. Again, another hateful short move but I digress.

So I am now surrounded by weird folks who rent. My own fault, I know, but a situation that I plan on rectifying in the spring. In the meantime, I just have to deal with it and all of the freakshow activity involved.

Unfortunately, this situation just got weirder as the owners sold the property to a new guy who plans on using it as an investment. He plans on taking a 1-acre horse property in the middle of a residential neighborhood and building multi-unit condos. Joy! Not!

The new owner came over the other night to introduce himself—Rick something or other foreign that I can’t remember now to add to this entry. He seemed like an okay guy—small, shaved head and foreign. I wasn’t sure if he was Russian or Israeli or something in between and to be honest, I really don’t care as long as it doesn’t interrupt my existence. Pretty much how I deal about most things…

Now, I am probably the most paranoid person I know. This comes, in part, from living in L.A. for 4 years and, in part, from having to get restraining orders against various stalkers over the years (yeah, I wasn’t kidding about that). If I think a car has been behind me for too long and I think the driver’s following me, I’ll take evasive maneuvers. Assinine? Possibly, maybe even probably, but I am a firm believer in better safety than sorry and so far, fingers and toes and assorted other appendages crossed, that adage hasn’t steered me wrong by more than a mile or so…

This being said, my neighbor, Zeta, has always struck me as being more than a little odd. Saying that Zeta is kind of paranoid is akin to saying that Hitler was kind of racist. She is totally nucking futs!

Yesterday morning, she shows up on my front porch freaking out about the new owner. Once again my ‘come tell me your freaky shit’ stamp must have been abundantly clear on my forehead. She starts off by saying that he introduced himself as ‘Rick’, “but that’s not his real name!” The name on the business card he gave her is apparently “Rezid”. HELLO! Gee, what a shocker! I looked at her in the way you do a drunken homeless person breakdancing naked with a bath towel on the side of the freeway—a combination of sympathy and irritation because it figures I don't have my fucking camera with me! I responded “Uh, Zeta, it’s not uncommon for foreigners to anglicize their given name after moving to America.” AKA DUH!!! Rick/Rezid—a major stretch I know, but go figure!

She then starts ranting on and on about how she is “suddenly” getting mail for him at her address. “I think he’s trying to force me out! Why else would I be getting mail for him?!” So I ask her “Is it personal mail—like his cell bill or something?” She responds “No, it’s junk mail.” Again DUH! He just bought a property and now he’s getting junk mail addressed to him at the address of the property—Oh! Spooky! So I tell her that this is pretty commonplace and she just doesn’t want to hear it. She is certain that it is a conspiracy and tells me so. HELLO! Do you know what a whack job you sound like?! Oy!

I tried my best to reassure her, but it was all wasted breath. You can’t convince a crazy broad that her reality isn’t real and sometimes, you’re just better off not trying.

She then proceeds to tell me that her “toilet hasn’t been working in a week” and that Rick/Rezid “won’t fix it” so she’s going to “contact the county assessor.” Uh, why? Are you looking for the purchase price of the property? I try to explain to her that the county assessor has nothing to do with landlord/tenant complaints and to tell her who she actually does need to contact when she basically cut me off at my perky tits without so much as a whatfor and tells me that she “is well aware of who to complain to.” Uh, okay then. Have at! Go for it you fricking nutjob!

She then told me that she is now considering moving “North” to live with a friend so that Rick/Rezid “can’t force her out.” I agreed with her that this is probably her best option “given the situation”.

I know. I know. Not nice, but what was I to do? Continue to ‘argue’ with her when she is so obviously smarter (I mean she did spot the conspiracy and all) and so much better informed than I am? I may be moving in the spring but really who am I to disagree with her? I sure as Hell could use a few months of sanity and peace in the meantime!

Besides, my only other viable option at that point was to start screaming "Run away! Run away!"

Waking Up in a Land of Hurt
Mood:  party time!
Now Playing: Pink
In my drinking ‘career’, I have found that there is only one guaranteed way to avoid a hangover AKA the land of hurt. Don't drink. Ever. And while you'll be certain to avoid hangovers, you can also assume that you won’t be having shitloads of fun either.

I have to figure that the majority of folks who are concerned with avoiding hangovers in the first place, are probably not going to follow the not ever drinking ‘method’. I know I don't.

So here’s your next best choice: never drink enough to get totally drunk. Stop when you hit mildly abbreviated. That way, hangovers will be rare, if not nonexistent, and at least you are still socially activated.

But since almost everyone who has ever had a hangover won’t comply with not ever drinking or not drinking enough to get totally drunk, then here is what I have found to be the best preventive measure to avoid waking up dazed and confused in a land of hurt.

When your drunken ass rolls home (hopefully taken there by a designated driver), always force yourself to take 3 ibuprofen and one or two glasses of water before you allow your body to succumb to unconsciousness and drunken dreamland.

Yeah, I know, you're full of beer/super dirty martinis/Jack & Coke/Chardonney, etc. (or at least I am) and the last thing you want to do is chug down a lot of water on top of an already overfull stomach of booze. It spells frequent urination sessions for the remainder of your morning but it WILL pay off in the long run.

I’m telling you a few ibuprofen and water really does work. Mind you, it's not a failsafe cure or I would be rolling in dough for inventing a post party kit with ibuprofen, a glass and a sleep mask and marketing the Hell out of it. You'll still feel a little ragged and narfy in the a.m., perhaps as if your head is full of Brillo pads and a gerbil slept in your mouth, but it can truly save you the next day. Trust me. I know it's not easy to make yourself do this after a long night of exquisite alcohol abuse, but if you try to make it a part of your regular routine before going to bed, you'll thank yourself the next day. This can also be a tricky maneuver if you've imbibed so much that you're actually stinking falling down/stumbling/passing out-drunk. Try your hardest to make yourself do it though. (Also be SURE you know exactly what pills you're swallowing. Mistaking Dulcolax for the ibuprofen can spell serious disaster! )

If you fail to do the ibuprofen/water regime, your options become rather limited when you've just pried open your swollen eyes to find yourself collapsed, hopefully in a bed, but worst of all, awake and the morning sun is pouring into your room as you forgot to make even a half ass attempt in your drunken stupor last night to fully close the blinds. Your pickled brain reviews the events of the previous evening and hopefully manages to reconstruct some sort of memory of at least a portion of the night's activities.

You feel like ass! This is usually the time when we all start making the well-known and soon forgotten "I'll-never-drink-again" declarations. You need help and quick before you spend the rest of the day alternately puking and sleeping in misery.

You need to start with the ‘after the fact’ remedies ASAP in the hope of reclaiming your body from the grips of hangover nightmare.

Drink liquids--think copious amounts--your body is dehydrated from all of the alcohol. As your electrolytes are totally out of whack, you need a combination of liquids, sodium and sugar. I go for the cool glass of water (sans ice) with a pinch of sugar and a pinch of salt. Some folks go for Gatorade. Gatorade is just too much for my system, especially if I am feeling nauseous. Nothing says hurl-o-rama like Gatorade if I am hung over.

Vitamins-all the alcohol you chugged down last night during the fun fest that was your evening out has effectively flushed away a significant supply of your body’s vitamins and nutrients. I am a firm believer in Emer’gen-C. That stuff is champion! (And no, I am not getting a nice kick back from the company to promote them maybe I should contact them about that…). This nifty little fizzy drink is a pretty good energy booster and contains tons of vitamin C (potent antioxidant), mineral complexes, B vitamins, electrolytes, and a bunch of other stuff. Fuck all amazing I tell you! Simple too, which totally works when your brain and body are barely functioning at simian, let alone human, levels. Just pour a package into some water, grasp it firmly in both of your trembling hands and suck it gratefully down.

After my guts settle down a bit, I usually try some food. In reality, you should avoid fatty and greasy foods as they tend to wreak havoc on your already torqued digestive system. I say bullshit! Nothing seems to wipe out a hangover for me like some serious greasy protein. Bring on the dead cows! Bring on the scrambled chicken zygotes! Nothing says loving like some Los Betos or random greasy neighborhood breakfast diner. Ah, shades of college. Roll your hungover ass into a nearby greasy spoon, indulge and roll back home to bed.

Which brings us to my last ‘secret’ weapon—sleep. It’s the best restorative. Your wasted body and mind need this. It’s the finest, and final, step in your recovery from a land of hurt.

Now, I know there are some folks who swear by hair of the dog which can work for some folks as adding more alcohol to your system helps numb your throbbing head. For me, it can either do the trick or send me spiraling over the edge into the deep end of the land of hurt pool. I say, best to avoid this method 99.7% of the time unless on vacation in a tropical paradise or Minnesota.

So if you’re going to drink, remember it’s not a necessity to drink your ass into oblivion on a regular basis (unless you are in college and then I highly recommend it) but if you do, remember Helloise’s (or Megoise’s which just doesn’t have the same pizzaz) Helpful Hangover Hints and maybe you’ll avoid yourself at least a portion of a land of hurt.

You can thank me in the new year....

I want my two dollars! AKA Shame on Butterflymall.com! A Rant by Guest Bloggist Deb
Mood:  on fire
Now Playing: My Chemical Romance : Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge
First off, I apologize in advance-this is going to be a seriously long bitch-fest post on my part, devoid of any humor (unless Meg edits and adds quality snark). I’m. That. Fricking. Mad. Over freaking $47 owed to me. Seriously. So here’s the story.

Last Christmas, being the intrepid bargain shopper that I am, I used a website called Butterflymall.com for a bunch of my gift purchases. Ya’ know, to save a little coin. For those of you unfamiliar with Butterflymall.com it is a shopping site where, when you make purchases from other retailers (like Nordstrom’s, Gap, etc.) through the butterflymall.com site, they promise you a percentage of your purchase as a rebate in the form of a future credit or mailed check AKA cash money. So if you go through their site and make a $100 purchase from say, Gap.com, they offer a 4% rebate off that purchase. The retailers pay Butterflymall.com a referral fee and they purport to send a percentage of the savings back to you. Sounded pretty sweet to me!

Stay with me here, it’s gonna’ get fugly.

Now there are a few of these sites that legitimately offer this advantage and are actually reputable, Ebates.com for example. I made a few purchases last year through them, requested my owed rebate check and it was delivered within a few weeks. What attracted me to Butterflymall.com was that their rebate percentages were much higher than the others and they were getting a bunch of press, so I signed up. (Once again proving that if it sounds to good to be true…it is!) All was good in the world of online shopping, until I nicely requested my promised rebate check.

It then turned quickly into a massively annoying poop fest!

To make a REALLY, REALLY long story short (unlike Meg, I can do that!), I made several requests for the aforementioned check, starting in mid-February, and by late September, I had received jack for my efforts but a few canned email responses telling me they were “processing” my request (after seven months? When their website states it takes a few weeks to a month) AKA ‘blah, blah,blah,blah…go away little missy.’ Come on! How stupid do you think I am? Apparently, a total moron…

Most sane people would have given up by now, as it is ‘only’ $47 at stake here. I say “No way Jose! Not on my watch!” They have thrown down the gauntlet after bitch slapping me with a totally stinky glove! I never give up on this kind of shit! Bring it on bitches! So I turned to Google, the search wagon of life, looking for other complaints. At first, not much turned up but shameless press releases given by their CEO, Dan Sonerhell. Oops, I’d better keep him anonymous, so we’ll just call him ‘San Oderhell’, who is a former public relations executive and now touted as an “Internet shopping guru”. PUHLEEZE! I mean, sure he might be great at P.R., but it is obvious he doesn’t know Dick, or Jane for that matter, about customer service!

Finally (finally!), I stumbled onto a website that had a message board where there were numerous posts from rampant fashionistas about Butterflymall.com, and how no one who used them received a check. EVER. This was one pissed-off group with post after post ranting about how they were duped out of their great bargain by Butterflymall.com’s refusal to send the promised rebate. Refusal, or completely inept business practices, no one could really decide which.

Here’s a tip: never, ever, piss off shopping-obsessed gals, because they are nothing if not bargain savvy! Hell, if I bought a $900 Louis Vuitton handbag via Butterflymall.com’s arrangement with eLuxury.com (which, BTW, offers a 5.6% rebate, reducing the cost of the bag by $50.40, IF they actually honored it-fat chance!), I’d rant all day long on a message board too. I found out from the fashionistas that the only way anyone EVER got their rebate from Butterflymall.com, was to report them to the Better Business Bureau.

Can you believe that steaming pile of crap?

So, I followed their advice and submitted a report to the BBB.org (Better Business Bureau), but not before I emailed Butterflymall.com one last time, telling them I was reporting them to BBB.org if I didn’t get the money they owed me.

Nothing. Nada. Zip. Zilch. No response. In fact, that rat bastard, ‘San Oderhell’, deleted my email without even opening it!

I now realize that I am dealing with a company whose employees and CEO have the collective intelligence of Jessica Simpson! I mean, WTF! Is it chicken or tuna?

About a month later I got an email from one of their representatives stating that Butterflymall.com researched the situation, realized I was owed money and that they had promptly sent me the check and they considered my case “closed”.

Mutha’ trucking liars!

It is now December of 2005 and I have yet to see my “promptly sent out check”. I just re-submitted a complaint with BBB.org, as well as Fraud.org, and Consumeraffairs.com for fraud.

Why expend all of this effort over a measly 47 bucks? Because nobody slaps me upside the head with a stinky glove and gets away with it! It’s all about the principle at this point! Seriously. My hope is twofold: One, that no other poor slob gets suckered in as I did by Butterfly.com and that two, others out there who are wondering why it’s taking eons to get their promised rebate checks, Google this company, stumble across my guest rant and realize that they aren’t going to get a check from Butterflymall.com in this lifetime or any other! Maybe they, too, will get pissed off enough to take a few minutes to report them to BBB.org. Or even better, one of the retailers paying this company referral fees will see this and yank their contract with Butterflymall.com!

(Hey, if you’re gonna dream why not dream really big!)

And maybe, just maybe, ‘San Oderhell’ and his merry band of village idiots, errrr scam artists, errrr employees, will get their act together and deliver on what they promise!

So buyer beware! Don’t buy into the happy promises painted by Butterflymall.com! You will come away from the experience feeling as bitter and unfulfilled as if you had just eaten an entire box of Snackwells…

I am SO not hiting on you!
Mood:  d'oh
Now Playing: Heaven 17
So I was at the dealership today finalizing my paperwork for ‘Hi-Ho’ my darling new silver beastie.

We had to swap out the loans as I was originally approved under their corporate financing and I wanted to exchange it for my own bank’s loan. We were just waiting on the paperwork from my bank to arrive.

Now, the guys I dealt with in fleet sales were total rockstars. I felt totally comfortable with them and it was the best experience I could have ever have hoped for in the trauma of the car buying experience. That is, until I had to deal with the freaky guy in the finance department.

I should have known something was up when the fleet sales manager, Dusty, prefaced my meeting with him with “I’m sorry, but Chaz is the only finance guy here today.” EEK! Ok, that doesn’t bode well and it didn’t.

To say this guy was an odd duck would be a massive understatement!

When I returned from dealing with him, the first words out of my mouth to Dusty were “That guy is so totally creepy!” and Dusty said “I know, sorry about that.”

In fact, this guy was so weird that I mentioned my meeting with him to a few of my friends. As in shudder! Ugh! Can you believe the freakshow!?!

Now, I am an abnormally happy and friendly broad. I also am extremely outgoing and can pretty much talk to anyone about anything comfortably. However, sometimes this tends to bite me in the ass as men always think I am hitting on them when I’m not.

Such is the case with Chaz.

I go into his office and within minutes, he is telling me all about the ultimatum his girlfriend gave him and how he dumped her because he “is a single dad with five wonderful kids..." and his "kids have to come first…” and that “she gave me an ultimatum and I showed her the door.” Uh, ok. That’s really nice and all. Can we just finish the paperwork so I can bail with ‘Hi Ho’? Then he keeps checking his phone for text messages, supposedly from her, (while grimacing and making snarky comments to me about them). OY! Come on! Then he aks me what I think about it. Think about what? I don’t know her, I don’t know you. Puhleeze! Do I look like an extremely fashionable Dear Abby?

Which leads us to my other problem: random strangers always seem to feel uber comfortable telling me their deep, dark secrets/issues/ life stories, etc. without any encouragement. This is why I slap on headphones for any flight I am taking so that I am not stuck in a seat next to someone for the next 3-5 hours listening to their deep, dark secrets/issues/ life stories, etc. I know that sounds harsh, but you have no idea the weird ass shit random strangers have shared with me starring as the unwilling listener.

I don’t want to hear about how you cheated on your LSATs (ick!), that you enjoy watching Teletubbies (double ick!), that you stole from your last job (felonious ick!) that you have a collection of all of your scabs (medical waste ick!), that you cheated on your wife (adulterous ick!), how when you were a child your dog was hit by a car and died in front of you (so horribly sad and ick!), about the time you experimented with LSD in the Army while on a tour of duty in Bosnia (unpatriotic and unprofessional ick!), how your ex-girlfriend, "that bitch", got a restraining order against you just because you “smacked her once when she needed to calm the Hell down” (assault ick!), how you wish trolls, elves, unicorns, etc. were real (Middle Earth ick!), how much you love the music of Def Leppard (long hair 80s music ick!) and the list goes on and on. Scarier? All those examples are real information that folks, random strangers mind you, have voluntarily confided to me. What?! Do I have the words “Please tell me your freaky shit” stamped on my forehead?!

As I walked into the dealership tonight, I quickly glanced over at the finance office in the hope that Chaz wasn’t in. Whew! No sign of him!

I meandered back to the fleet area. As I was greeted by the guys, the first thing out of my mouth was “Am I going to have to deal with Chaz again? He totally gave me the creeps!”

Dusty started laughing and said “No, he’s not here. Funny you should mention him though. After you left the other day, he came in and told us all how you were totally hitting on him…” WTF?! “Are you kidding me?” I asked, “I thought he was a total skeeve.” Dusty, still laughing, said “Yeah, I know. So I told him, that’s not what I heard.”

Oy! Just what I need--one more random dude thinking that because I laugh a lot and didn’t cut him off at the knees during his bizarre-o ranting that I am all into him and hitting on him.

For future reference guys, you will know in spades if I’m hitting on you. Just ask Mr. Pierced/Tattooed who walked into one of my events a few weeks ago. I was on that shit immediately and hard. Walked out within 10 minutes after exchanging phone numbers with him.

In the meantime, if a chick is being nice to you, don't assume that A) she wants you bad and B) she wants to hear your weird ass deep, dark secrets/issues/ life stories, etc. If she's hitting on you, trust me, you'll know!

POST SCRIPT: All I had to do was say to my girlfriends today "Hey, remember that creepy finance guy I told you about?" and they were all like "Ew! Yeah--what about him?" so I told them about how he told the fleet guys I was hitting on him. It was good for a chuckle...

Megan Looks Just Like...
Mood:  silly
Now Playing: Glen Miller
When I was a ‘small’ (the term I use when I refer to all kids under 6 yrs of age), not only did I not speak intelligible English, I apparently closely resembled a Benedictine monk sans the burlap robe, rope belt, and Barney Rubble feet. I had a halo of golden brown hair around my head like a monk’s fringe and no eyebrows to speak of. Just ginormous brown eyes perched above rosy cheeks. No wonder I am such a whack job after that childhood…but I digress.

We lived in a cul de sac in our neighborhood in No Cal. The only other kids around that were near in age to me (3) and my older sister, Lindsay, (6) (of f-bomber fame) were the Jaworski kids across the street. Their parents were doctors and Chrissy Jaworski was one of those ‘odd’ children. Here was this beautiful, blonde, fairytale princess child who, at 6, was uber serious and could discuss probably most anything on par mentally with at least a tenth grader, if not a drunken frat boy.

So one day, while my mom’s parents, Grams and Gramps Keyes, were in town when Lindsay and Chrissy came tumbling into our house after some hardcore playing outside. I was just minding my own Goddamn business, as 3-year olds are wont to do, hanging out in my playpen when Chrissy commented to no one in general “Megan looks just like a little man.” WTF?! (This is my adult self being enraged over this insult to my mute monk of a 3-year old self)

My grandparents were sitting nearby reading in front of the fire (Oh so Norman Rockwell). My Gramps, upon hearing Chrissy’s comment on my apparent manly yet monkish good looks, says “Well, how do you know she’s not a little man Chrissy?” And Chrissy looks puzzled and replies “Because she’s a little girl Mr. Keyes.” To which Gramps responds “But how do you know she’s a little girl Chrissy?” And Chrissy, again, looks perplexed and replies back “Because I just know she’s a girl Mr. Keyes.” (Ever the respectful kid wasn’t she?). Gramps, being Gramps, just can’t let it go so he says again “But how do you know she’s not a little man Chrissy?” to which Chrissy responded “Because she doesn’t have a penis Mr. Keyes.”

I believe apoplectic is the only way to describe Gramp’s reaction.

He started stuttering and stammering and completely freaking out. Understandable, as I’m sure that was the very last response he ever expected his teasing to elicit from Chrissy, the little blonde angel.

The classic end to this story? As Gramps was completely losing his mind, Grams apparently never looked up from the book she was reading. All she said, never even batting an eye, was “Well, you asked for it Jim.”

Classic.

The Games We Play...
Mood:  mischievious
Now Playing: Depeche Mode
So I went out with this guy a week or so ago. He wasn’t my ‘normal’ type, but he held his own in spades when it came to intelligence and verbal sparring. That, in itself, is uber sexy to me. Grrrrrrrrrrrrr! We ended up having a super fun time! He told me that he wanted to see me again and soon…I fully concurred! As I already had set plans the next night, as did he, we made plans to go out Sunday after my trail ride.

Sunday came and after 5 hours in the saddle swilling beer and racing up and down South Mountain, I was pretty wiped out and pretty tanked. I called ‘Walt’ to check in and in reality, cancel. I knew that if I didn’t get my drunken self into a hot tub ASAP, I was going to be hella’ sore Monday at work. So I called and left a message and rolled myself into my buddy Bruce’s hot tub to stew my incredibly sore ass for a few hours. Surprise, surprise, I never heard back from 'Walt'. Hmmmmmmm… go figure.

Now I’m super easy going. I figured something came up and as I was calling to cancel anyway, all was cool in the universe so I called 'Walt' on Monday and left him a message basically letting him know that. No return call. Odd. Ok, stuff happens. He changed his mind about wanting to see me again, whatever. To refer to one of my favorite phrases, shit happens. Would it have been cool to go out with him again. Sure. Would anything have come of it? Who knows. Again, I’m not really looking for a relationship right now so whatever…

Fast forward to Friday, 9pm-ish. I’ve picked up the new beastie and I am enjoying myself at the Suns’ game with my date when I get a text message. A text message from ‘Walt’ “What’s up? What r u doing?” LMAO! Are you kidding me? I don’t know what was more amusing-the fact that ‘Walt’ would assume I had no plans on a Friday night or that he thought that he could text me after totally blowing me off, and if I had no plans, I would what? Call him to be a last minute, after thought hook up? Puhleeze! I laughed so hard I was in tears!

Why you ask? Because it totally reminded me of high school! Let amateur hour begin! I am finding the whole thing uber amusing! I am just out of practice in the game playing arena. I don’t think I’ve had that ‘pleasure’ since high school or possibly freshman year of college. So I send him a text message Saturday a.m. telling him I was off buying a new beastie knowing full well he wasn’t going to return the text. Hee, hee! Let the games begin! I am finding this beyond amusing and fun!

He didn’t return the text message, as I knew he wouldn’t. Sooooooooo predictable! So I called him yesterday (I knew he wouldn’t answer the phone) to apologize for not getting back to him Friday, but I was at the Suns’ game with a date. Hee, hee!

OMG! I’m telling you, this is a gas! I am figuring that I’ll either never hear from him again or he’ll text me again in his own time. I rather hope he’ll text me again this Friday night. I just think that this is hilarious!

If I sound harsh, I’m sorry. I rather liked this guy and looked forward to hanging out with him some more. It’s a rarity for me to go out with someone that I actually want to see a second time. Especially someone who totally challenged me mentally and to be honest, was a great kisser. I was rather surprised and bummed that he cheesed out this way and I find the totally juvenile way he has dealt with me deserves the same. I am in no way mad, upset, pissed, etc. I am horribley amused by a 34-year old acting like a goofy teenage boy. (Hey 'Walt', there is still time to recover the situation!)

At least I’m not so into high school mode that I’m texting him every hour with “Lame! Lame!Lame!”

I only did it once…

Nothing like a Stalker...
Mood:  d'oh
Now Playing: Jeff Beck
I ran into my ex-husband yesterday morning at Target. Bad news? I looked like Hell! I rolled out of bed after a looooooong and fun date night and roared over to get stuff done before the crazy crowds hit. Good news? A) He looked way worse than I did (and not in the good ‘I had a rocking date last night’ way) and B) He noticed that I had a late night as he commented “Oh, looks like you had a late night…” in a rather snotty tone. To which I responded "Oh yeah!"...hee, hee--I'm fricking evil sometimes!

I think what totally creeped me out was when he then asked me how I was enjoying my new car. What?! The new car I got barely 12 hours ago? I guess I looked freaked out because he quickly responded “Uh, well, with the traffic detour and all, I, uh, have to go by your house.” (we do live a few blocks apart). You mean the traffic detour that ended on the 9th? You have to go by my house?Hmmmmmm…looks like we are back to the same problem I always seem to have with him. He likes to do drive bys to see what I’m doing and then gets bitter when it involves other guys. Even a gated community didn’t deter his energetic spying efforts.

As I’ve said before, my father says that I tend to bring out obsessive tendencies in guys. Even after being divorced for three years, my ex still hasn’t gotten over it. It’s a common problem. Not to sound snotty, but apparently, once you go Megan, you never go back. One ex told me it was the “randomness” of me. Hmmmm…ok. I have had more stalkers and just slightly fewer restraining orders than any one broad needs in a lifetime. I went out with a guy, Big John, for 6 weeks over two years ago and like clockwork, he shows up at my office every 6 months or so begging for a second chance. He’s changed. Jeesh! Get over it!

I still have my original stalker from high school. He is another one. Being caught in a police sting operation set up by my parents over 22 years ago, apparently didn’t dissuade him. Over the years, he has tried to contact me through my sorority in college, my sorority alumni group after college, my parents, by attempting to bribe a 411 operator into giving him my number (I am unlisted for a reason), through classmates.com, etc. It’s spooky I tell you!

So the long and short of it, I guess I’ll have to start parking the new beast behind my house in order to confuse and cause consternation in my ex.

The things I have to do…

Friday Night Is All Right For Shopping?
Mood:  happy
Now Playing: Jet Boy Jet Girl
So I spent Friday night as I usually do Friday nights. Not! I spent a good portion of Friday night in Mesa, Land of the Mormons, car shopping. UGH!

Usually car shopping sucks weasel. Big, fat, pink weasel and then some. When I bought my Jeep Grand Cherokee, the sales guy at Earnhardt pissed me off so bad, I told him I was done and got up and left. He proceeded to follow me out and across the street to Chuy’s where I ordered a pitcher of margaritas and a straw.

I’ve been lucky in that I’ve never really had to car shop. Some man has always done it for me. My dad. My friends. My ex-husband. I HATE dealing with it! My standard line is “I’m just here to pick out the color…” Last time, with my ex-husband, that didn’t work as I ended up with a car I didn’t want (sniff, sniff over my black Tahoe I didn’t get) because it wasn’t worth the battle but I digress.

‘Big Red’ as I lovingly (not) called the chili pepper colored bastard beast SUV I did end up with after the last car shopping trip was a POS from the get go. Five years later, I seemed to be standing graveside of it on a regular basis and I wasn’t crying over its near death. In the last year, I have dumped cash into it with startling regularity. That ginormous sucking noise? The bleeding chest wound of car repairs. $1,400 within a year and it still needed at least $1,000 more and that was before I noticed that the window motors were starting to go. I know when to throw in the towel—when the car is out of warranty and falling apart in vastly different areas.

So it was time to get a new beastie. The very thought filled me with all sorts of trepidation. I had no desire to haggle and argue with some kid, that in other circumstances, I’d usually try to hit on.

I started hitting up friends for contacts in car sales. I got hooked up with a friend of mine’s ex-husband (yes, they’re on good terms) in fleet sales. WAHOO!!!

In a matter of 20 minutes, a little hottie had taken me around to see the 3 models I was interested in and I picked one. I believe in love at first sight—especially with cars. With the exception of ‘Big Red’, it was love at first sight with the ‘Snaggin’ Wagon’, ‘Little Red’, ‘Nugget mo’, ‘Speed Racer’, ‘Jeepster’ and now, ‘Hi Ho’ (she’s silver). (Yes, I am a total dork and I name all my cars).When you're in love with a cute silver beastie...

I was in and out in an hour with my new baby and off to the Sun’s game for a hot date night only marred by a highly amusing text message which is a story for another time.

Ah! I love the scent of new car in the morning!

The Purity Test
Mood:  mischievious
Now Playing: Fun Boy Three
The other night I was online and noticed that my friend Deb was on IM. The next thing you know we’re gabbing up a storm in cyber space. Being possessed of rather off the wall senses of humor, we start discussing the weirdest stuff we have seen on the Internet. She tells me to Google ‘tub girl’ and won’t give me a hint as to what I’ll find. What I found nearly made me hurl. Mind you, I have a cast iron stomach-I eat the tacos from the street vendors in odd Mexican border towns. So I counter with clown porn-not as graphic, but still odd. Pretty soon we are comparing notes on all kinds of freaky shit we have found on the Internet. She answers with ‘lemon city’ and I parry with orbital sex. Things start getting out of hand. I start telling her about all the freakshow stuff my friend Dale told me about. Dale is a former U.S. Marshall and has been in law enforcement for more years than I’ve been alive. He also has a PhD in psychology and runs a company called Forensitec which involves the field of psycholinguistics and other hi-tech stuff. Basically, he can read writing samples from people and determine if there is deception involved among other things. Way cool, but I digress.

After a couple of beverages, Dale and I got into a discussion one night about aberrant behavior and fetishes (which I refer to as Feti) as he researched them for a thesis or so he says. He filled me in on the ‘joys’ of ‘plushies’ (people who have sex with stuffed animals or while dressed in mascot uniforms), blow up doll porn (self explanatory), those who enjoy the ‘hot lunch’ (having someone drop a steaming dookie in your mouth), etc. Basically, he filled me in on all kinds of shit I had no idea existed and basically ruined my trust in human nature. I now subject my dates to WAY closer scrutiny although the freaks keep slipping through my radar.

So Deb and I are bandying about all this stuff, alternately laughing and shuddering. The result was that I wondered if I was too uptight or just naive. I know Deb’s pretty straight laced (sorry babe, I love you but it’s the truth) but what about me? I always thought I was a pretty open-minded chick. I have my own feti and proclivities, tame as they may be, so who am I to give the smack down on others’ just because I find them completely unappealing or downright repulsive.

I came across a ‘purity’ test during these IMs and Deb & I decided to take it while we were online. It is comprised of 1,000 questions. I know that seems like a lot, but you can pretty much whip through as you just check the boxes of the ones you answer yes to. There were whole sections I skipped and sections where I was glad they had an explanation of what they were asking as I was clueless.

My results? I answered ‘yes’ to 461 out of the 1,000 questions. This made me 53.9% sexually pure and 46.1% sexually corrupt. I was pretty excited about my results until Deb announced that she had scored 73% in purity, being only 27% corrupt. Oh shit! Was I on a one way out of control freight train to Hell?! Turns out she was just higher than the average. The average purity result for this test out of the 62,460 folks who took it was 72.2%. Somehow I think people were lying on their answers.

So the next day at work, I encourage some co-workers to take it, hoping to feel better. Saffron scored a 76%--EEEEK! However, Sasha, scored 50% pure which didn’t make me feel much better as she is an active bi-sexual. I think my score plummeted in the categories of “Have you ever had someone suck your toes” and “Have you ever mashed with more than one person in an evening” and “Have you done multiple body shots off of hot college boys”. I still can’t figure out where I went ‘wrong’ on it. I admit, I like insane ‘circus sex’ as my ex-would call it, sans the midgets, but in the confines of a monogamous relationship and really not all that freaky. I swear.

I know you’re wondering now what your freakshow errr, I mean purity factor is. Take the test. Let me know what your score is…but only if it’s lower than mine. I don’t need a complex!

http://www.armory.com/tests/sex1000.html